tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1001156153899984046.post6086200901223343633..comments2024-03-28T13:20:41.312-04:00Comments on Jungle Red Writers: Dinner HourJungle Red Writershttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16646429819267618412noreply@blogger.comBlogger29125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1001156153899984046.post-66928947238602736032016-06-27T22:30:12.189-04:002016-06-27T22:30:12.189-04:00Kait, my dad wanted dinner promptly at 5:00 as wel...Kait, my dad wanted dinner promptly at 5:00 as well. He was awake each workday at 5 a.m. for the early shift at McDonnell Aircraft, so he was probably quite hungry by then. He made our kitchen table from a door, to have enough room for Mom, Dad, and five kids. I'm sure those very regular mealtimes were a healthy idea, but I tend to eat when I feel like it. I do have cloth napkins, though. ;-)<br />Storytelling friends began an initiative to bring families together for meals and sharing stories, to help build community, and it was popular and successful.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1001156153899984046.post-12928875685302794672016-06-27T18:49:16.227-04:002016-06-27T18:49:16.227-04:00Once a week, the 11 year old grandson spends the n...Once a week, the 11 year old grandson spends the night. We go to our favorite food truck and get GF hamburgers and french fries, set the table and eat together. The rest of the time I eat as if it's interrupting my day, standing up, in front of the TV, at kitchen counter doing FB, at office thumbing through new mail. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13486134929990378628noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1001156153899984046.post-20466623902039655522016-06-27T15:14:32.262-04:002016-06-27T15:14:32.262-04:00Brava! This year is the kitchen reno. Enough exci...Brava! This year is the kitchen reno. Enough excitement and we want to see if the relationship survives. Ann in Rochesternoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1001156153899984046.post-59290759369088863032016-06-27T15:07:41.473-04:002016-06-27T15:07:41.473-04:00My husband and I eat our main meal together at the...My husband and I eat our main meal together at the table in our dining area. Usually in the evening, although sometimes at midday. I cook, more often in the winter - we do a lot more carry in in the summer heat, and when I do cook I usually make enough for several meals. The time varies because we walk at sunset fall through spring, and sometimes we eat first and sometimes after.CindyDnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1001156153899984046.post-63980506790568745342016-06-27T14:51:13.111-04:002016-06-27T14:51:13.111-04:00Mine is the usual history here, growing up in the ...Mine is the usual history here, growing up in the Fifties, the four of us at the dining table, having mom-cooked meals every night, usually about 6:00, sometimes 6:30. No television, but at that time there wasn't much on until 7:00 or after anyway. Table manners were emphasized, so was conversation, though the adults did most of it, my brother and I answered questions such as "How was swim workout?".<br /><br />Now? We're both retired, kids far away, just the two of us. Barbara is a news junkie, so the news comes on at 5:00 and runs to 7:00 (local and national on NBC, then same on CBS). She eats on the coffee table. I can hear it if I choose, though I usually tune it out, as I'm eating at the kitchen island and reading. We have home cooked meals (we alternate) 5 nights a week, including leftovers, and take out or pickup the other two. Restaurant meals are rare. Our dining room table, which seats 8 without the leaf, is used for guests, otherwise it sits empty except for a table runner and a pretty ceramic bowl or dried flower arrangement in a vase (cats will knock fresh flowers over and flood the table). <br /><br />If this sounds sad, that we go our own way at dinnertime, we both had a long time of family sit down meals and now are comfortable with a relaxed go-our-own-way routine. We're home together most of the time, reading, gardening, doing chores, on the computers, or what have you, there's not a lot of catching up on the day, we know that as it goes. So a must eat at X time in X place seems more artificial than needed.Rick Robinsonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07978136287154214297noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1001156153899984046.post-46616966448589385932016-06-27T13:10:44.448-04:002016-06-27T13:10:44.448-04:00Growing up, we five kids and our parents always at...Growing up, we five kids and our parents always ate dinner together as a family. No dining room in our small apartment, so we ate at the kitchen table. When I was in high school we moved to a larger apartment that had a dining room. Dinners were always in the dining room from then on. There was always conversation about our day or about anything else we wanted to talk about. NO TV during dinner!(And we couldn't do our homework in the same room as the TV.)<br /><br />When I have company we eat at the table in the living/ dining area; NO TV(well, I don't have one!) Otherwise, I either read or watch a DVD while eating dinner. I cook real meals about once a week and eat the leftovers the rest of the time.<br /><br />A few years ago I stopped using the Every Day dishes and started using the Good dishes all the time. They are much cheerier and I like them! I don't care if I'm the only one who will see them.<br /><br />Deb RomanoDeb Romanohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01650858888197217258noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1001156153899984046.post-81648314477623132102016-06-27T12:48:12.246-04:002016-06-27T12:48:12.246-04:00Growing up, we ate dinner in the kitchen every day...Growing up, we ate dinner in the kitchen every day. Always cooked, not frozen dinners, although with four kids the quality of that cooking is debatable. =) We working around kid activities and the like. Going out, or ordering pizza was a treat! Even the years when my mother, a nurse, worked the 3-11 shift, the other five of us had dinner. No TV, no distractions. We kids had to talk and be civil to each other (if you couldn't be civil, you didn't talk). After dinner, my dad and I would pop in the soundtrack to "Top Gun" and see if we could get all the cleanup done by the end of the third track. That soundtrack still brings back memories.<br /><br />Now we don't have an eat-in kitchen so we eat in the dining room. Off real plates (but not cloth napkins - I can't keep up with the laundry as it is). We say grace, the kids have to tell us about their day, and we are militant about good manners. "Get your elbows off the table" is a frequent refrain. We do this as many times as possible a week, and I'd say we average around five times a week, maybe less depending on school/sports activities (swim season is rough). Usually home cooked. They are old enough that sometimes THEY cook!<br /><br />Again, ordering out is rare, and going out is even more rare. I have no idea if my kids will look back on this event with fondness or resignation. Fondness, I hope. Liz Millironhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04919409969263609919noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1001156153899984046.post-83802889115252160082016-06-27T12:22:17.703-04:002016-06-27T12:22:17.703-04:00I am happy to see how many of us eat real food at ...I am happy to see how many of us eat real food at our own tables. Very heartening. My partner and I eat supper together every night; so many friends find this amazing and, possibly, odd. But for us, it's the only way to reconnect after a day at our separate work. Good food, good talk, good times. <br />Ann: My partner, Val, and I married to mark our 20th anniversary. The impetus was a recurrence of the cancer that had first shown up about 17 years earlier. Our wedding was very small, at home, and so joyful -- I hadn't realized how happy a person could feel at such a ceremony. I highly recommend it. And, we'll mark our 23rd anniversary this coming August. Amanda Le Rougetelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17975933690463168906noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1001156153899984046.post-92134637960887650312016-06-27T12:17:50.651-04:002016-06-27T12:17:50.651-04:00We eat very early - maybe 5:00 PM. In the kitchen....We eat very early - maybe 5:00 PM. In the kitchen. We have a large dining room table we use frequently for family dinners - though we usually have to papers and computers off the surface. Generally home cooked dinners unless our schedules are a little wild - then perhaps a roasted chicken from the bistro or the supermarket with a salad and various veggies from here. Tonight, salmon, salad, corn, asparagus. I am a news junkie - so the odd (wo)man out here. Usually have the news on in the background but on mute with captions - then I'll flip it on if something current and interesting shows up. Somehow, we still have conversations. I have no defense - I know TV at dinner is frowned on and we certsinly didn't do when our children were home, but we're old now and can do what we want. What can I say? We've been married fifty years and still talk.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15338488144804742560noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1001156153899984046.post-37628025944169297952016-06-27T11:56:21.386-04:002016-06-27T11:56:21.386-04:00Ann, I meant to say, I think our cherry butcher bl...Ann, I meant to say, I think our cherry butcher block island came from a company in NY.Deborah Crombiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16988750789088153601noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1001156153899984046.post-91799602525611244832016-06-27T11:54:23.364-04:002016-06-27T11:54:23.364-04:00Kim, what a terrific idea. I'd love to listen ...Kim, what a terrific idea. I'd love to listen to music at dinner. No turntable in the kitchen, but I think you can see in the pic I posted that we have Bose speakers, and the sound system is in that cabinet to the left of the coffee maker. <br /><br />We just get busy, and I'm usually thinking when I'm cooking (book-thinking, you all know what I mean) so that would be a lovely break. XO to you, too!Deborah Crombiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16988750789088153601noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1001156153899984046.post-36850917522115036652016-06-27T11:33:38.061-04:002016-06-27T11:33:38.061-04:00Love this post and everyone's stories. When my...Love this post and everyone's stories. When my hubbie and I are both home, we eat at the table ... yes, with placemats. Nothing fancy. But we sit down together, and part of our ritual is putting on a record. Not a CD. Not the radio or an iPod. But we take the time to choose a record to listen to. We have mostly jazz, but lately Jim is into early Glen Campbell. Even if we have time for only one album, it grounds us to our day and life together. XOKimhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15354719566758459929noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1001156153899984046.post-3545702287472577572016-06-27T11:01:03.652-04:002016-06-27T11:01:03.652-04:00Hank, when my parents were out of town, my grandmo...Hank, when my parents were out of town, my grandmother and I ate on the fold out TV trays in the den. Swanson's Chicken Pot Pies. I still love them...Deborah Crombiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16988750789088153601noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1001156153899984046.post-65709667954084674632016-06-27T10:41:47.553-04:002016-06-27T10:41:47.553-04:00Yes, it makes such a difference! (and we use clot...Yes, it makes such a difference! (and we use cloth napkins, too. They are so pretty!) <br /><br />Hallie, we didn't have kitchen table when I was growing up--so all is not lost. <br /><br />Sometimes--wonderful of wonderfuls--we got to eat on TV tables, the flip out, x-leg kind.. And we got to have frozen dinners on those aluminum plate things We LOVED it. We only got to do it when my father was not home. (I can still remember the glue-y gravy and pasty peas. YUM.)Hank Phillippi Ryanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17420701704169428286noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1001156153899984046.post-30879433486010619212016-06-27T10:35:52.758-04:002016-06-27T10:35:52.758-04:00So fun to read everyone's comments! Ann, our k...So fun to read everyone's comments! Ann, our kitchen island is cherry. We redid our kitchen nine years ago--can't believe it's been that long--and still absolutely love it.<br /><br />I'm so glad to know that family dinners and dinner table conversation aren't dead. Good for adults, but especially good for children. Our daughter grew up eating with the grownups, and we were always able to take her anywhere.Deborah Crombiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16988750789088153601noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1001156153899984046.post-58763082097777105532016-06-27T10:08:18.525-04:002016-06-27T10:08:18.525-04:00We were very diligent about family meals at the ta...We were very diligent about family meals at the table together as we were raising my son, and for the four years we had an additional young man living with us. Emptying our nest was a gradual and long process, but for the past year it has finally been well-and-truly empty, and we are still working on finding a new routine that works for us. I'd say we average eating out two or three times a week now, occasionally more. And my work and his volunteer activities tend to prevent us from both being home for dinner together another night or two a week. But for the three to four remaining nights, if we CAN be there together we are, and we cook real, from-scratch food, usually eaten at the kitchen table, without any electronics. Time can vary widely, though -- anywhere from 6 p.m. to about 7:30, depending on a whole list of variables.Susanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08292993485984273172noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1001156153899984046.post-70411297540237491552016-06-27T10:06:13.837-04:002016-06-27T10:06:13.837-04:00This comment has been removed by the author.Susanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08292993485984273172noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1001156153899984046.post-39968241274108712012016-06-27T09:34:08.313-04:002016-06-27T09:34:08.313-04:00Family dinners in the dining room growing up, or a...Family dinners in the dining room growing up, or at the kitchen table in later years when it was just my parents and one or two visiting kids/grandkids. With the boys, we always sat down to dinner together at the table in my eat-in kitchen. It wasn't always home-cooked, but it was always at the table, with the table set. And I never worried about taking them out to eat--they were always too busy eating, chattering to each other and to me, and observing to be any trouble. More often than not, strangers would stop by our table/booth, etc., to compliment the boys on their behavior. This summer, home-cooked meals together are a rarity with our work schedules--and I miss those times. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1001156153899984046.post-91038700727991096322016-06-27T09:29:03.932-04:002016-06-27T09:29:03.932-04:00Congratulations, Ann! And thumbs-up on the cloth n...Congratulations, Ann! And thumbs-up on the cloth napkins. We use them, too. Just because I hate to create unnecessary garbage... and of course it's nice.<br /><br />Wondering if one of the things my kids will say they missed growing up was a kitchen table.Hallie Ephronhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04759439029582054503noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1001156153899984046.post-28284136367264190712016-06-27T09:13:11.023-04:002016-06-27T09:13:11.023-04:00Growing up, we always ate at the kitchen table, ta...Growing up, we always ate at the kitchen table, talking about our day and such. I missed those days, but now the family is scattered across the U.S.<br /><br />I eat all my meals at my kitchen table, prepared at home except on the weekend, where I will have takeout, mostly Chinese or Italian. Because it's just me and I hate doing the dishes, I eat on paper plates. For those special days, where I really cook a meal, I'll eat on my good plate.<br /><br />DruDruhttps://drusbookmusing.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1001156153899984046.post-12456971137972968742016-06-27T08:58:39.407-04:002016-06-27T08:58:39.407-04:00I grew up with a family dinner hour at the kitchen...I grew up with a family dinner hour at the kitchen table and when our boys were home we had family meals in the kitchen. We used the dining room for holidays or when we had guests and could not fit at the kitchen table. Similar rules, no technical media. Now that the boys are out on their own, my husband and I still sit for meals and ban electronics from the dinner table. Funny, we do the Chinese take out on the coffee table and watch a show too.MizzGailhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02747153714816070166noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1001156153899984046.post-8827388381782334452016-06-27T08:49:57.207-04:002016-06-27T08:49:57.207-04:00Although we've been celebrating all weekend, J...Although we've been celebrating all weekend, Julie and I are celebrating our 20th anniversary today. One of these days we'll get married.<br /><br />And for twenty years we've had dinner together, always cloth napkins. The only paper ones in the house are the cutesy cocktail ones featuring a drunken nun. <br /><br />We have eaten most meals outside or in the living room this summer. The kitchen is under construction, and the dining room table is full of kitchen stuff as is every available surface in there.<br /><br />Deb, my new kitchen is looking a lot like yours, glass doors on some of the white cabinets, a great island taking shape in the middle. It will be covered with a gorgeous maple butcher block, the only thing saved from the old kitchen. I can't wait to have our dinners in there!<br /><br />No TV in the kitchen, but I must admit to watching reruns of The Big Bang Theory in the living room while we eat. <br /><br />When my children were growing up, we had dinner together every single night, cooked by me. It was a fun time to be together and also to hone manners. Therefore, we could four little ones out to eat publicly or to a friend's home knowing they all knew how to use a knife and fork. Years later I was at a restaurant with the first two grandchildren when they were one and three. It was chaos. My daughter turned to me saying, "We'd never have got away with this, would we have." Bingo baby Not in this lifetime.<br />Ann in Rochesternoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1001156153899984046.post-72213130996202284282016-06-27T08:36:27.823-04:002016-06-27T08:36:27.823-04:00I grew up at a FRAUGHT dinner table -- six o'c...I grew up at a FRAUGHT dinner table -- six o'clock on the dot "or else," and a half-drunk father ready to pounce on somebody. But we did all sit down to a home-cooked meal. And I kept up that tradition with my own kids, although I am thankful that our dinners were calmer, and alcohol-free.<br /><br />My husband and I eat together at the dining room table, and sometimes that is our only time together in the day. I generally cook, but we do get Chinese once in a while.<br /><br />This winter and spring, one of the things I have been doing for my daughter and her family (Baby Girl #3 arrived in March) is go to her house, tidy the kitchen, make dinner and serve it in the dining room, clean up and then hold the baby through big girl bedtime. I think someone could make a business of doing that!! It feels like important glue in family life.<br /><br />So, yes. Dinner.Denise Annhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02790883493798517829noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1001156153899984046.post-1427359094453715922016-06-27T08:23:25.158-04:002016-06-27T08:23:25.158-04:00As usual, I'm out in left field. Husband and I...As usual, I'm out in left field. Husband and I eat supper at around 5 PM on TV tables in the living room while watching the local news. Definitely home cooked, though. I think family dinners around a table are just fine, but since it has only ever been just the two of us, we never got in the habit. Our dining table seats four and we occasionally use it if we have company, but most of the time my jigsaw-puzzle table sits on top of it.<br /><br />Kathy/KaitlynKathy Lynn Emersonhttp://www.kaitlyndunnett.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1001156153899984046.post-29409915371594399742016-06-27T07:59:12.651-04:002016-06-27T07:59:12.651-04:00If it were up to me, I wouldn't have a big mea...If it were up to me, I wouldn't have a big meal Ain the evening, but at lunch. However, Steve grew up with dinner on the table at 6:30, and by golly, that's when we eat. He doesn't work far away, and our nightly glass of wine is a nice segue from business for him. He pours while I cook, usually, and we discuss our days.<br /><br />We've always had a family meal, at the table, with cloth napkins and proper plates, etc. I cook about five nights a week, although I'm very good at disguising yesterday's meal as something "new" for tonight. Steve doesn't really care as long as he gets a meal. <br /><br />We were both single for a long time before we got married, and were both used to reading through dinner. We talk for awhile, but then often (not always) turn to one of the many books or magazines we're reading at the moment. This is why our kids learned to read so early, out of self-defense. Karen in Ohiohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18002794561817071780noreply@blogger.com