DEBORAH CROMBIE: It's a big day here in-- what did we decide to call it our little English village? Redfields? Anyway, we are all here celebrating Hanks newest thriller! Library Journal called Mother Daughter Sister Stranger “terrific.” And it’s a “Most Anticipated” from Zibby Owens, BookBub, Goodreads, Scary Mommy, Beyond the Bookends, AARP, and more!
Congratulations, dear Hank, on your 18th novel! (And, hint hint, you all can order it here!
What’s it about and where did it come from? And questions for you, Reds and Readers, and a giveaway, below!
DEBS: Hank, where did MOTHER DAUGHTER SISTER STRANGER come from?
Hank: Oh, it's a total magpie story. A little bit of this and a little bit of that and then, at some point, the story fragments reach critical mass and become something else. An entirely new story. Know what I mean? It’s amazing and so exciting when it happens.
One fragment: I was thinking about how often, when I was a teenager mostly, I'd lied to my mother. Not big deal lies, just homework and where I was at a pick a particular time. I'm sure she didn't believe a word of it, but she let it all go. But recently I started wondering, had she ever lied to me? How would I ever know? What if I found out? I kept thinking about that, that fragile relationship, and how we assume that what we've been told about our family history is true.
I must have been being a little nostalgic, too, because I also thought about how when I was growing up, and my mother would read out loud to me. I was always so frustrated when she said: “The End.” Because that couldn't be the end, could it? What happened after that and after that and after that?
I have always been fascinated by what happened to the Narnia kids, what happened to Nancy Drew, and later, what happened to Nick Carraway and the Bennett sisters. How did their lives turn out after their books ended? Were the endings actually happy?
I was also looking back at a prior manuscript of mine, and reading bill notes that my editor had put in the margins. And I realized how that shaped the story, how that shepherded what stayed in and what got cut and how people's motivations and desires changed. How the notes in the margins of a manuscript, the discussion between author and editor, can reveal the real story behind the story. More I cannot say.
So, Mother Daughter Sister Stranger: A missing mom. A frightened daughter. And a sister determined to find a happy ending for their family. Even though, as she discovers, her family's history turns out to be terrifyingly sinister, and all of their lives may go up in flames once again.
DEBS: You are famously a pantser. Were there big changes from the first draft to the final?
HANK: Well, that is a perfect question for this book! When Mother Daughter Sister Stranger was in first draft, the main character, Eliza Ramsey, had a blog where she wrote happy endings for characters in her favorite books. As she says in the original manuscript: she took Psych 101, and is well aware she’s really looking for a happy ending for herself after the devastating tragedy of her childhood, but that is something she cannot control. So she writes happy endings for others.
But! All that got cut! ALL OF IT! Because my darling editor and I decided it was just a little too much information. Eliza is still looking for happy endings, but in a completely different way. You’ll have to read it to find out.
DEBS: Did any character unexpectedly take the story in a direction you hadn’t expected?
HANK: As you said, I never plan. So the entire book took the story in directions I hadn't expected! But yes, there were two characters, certainly, who as they grew on the page, behaved in ways that were very surprising to me. I kept trying to nudge them back into the personality I thought I was writing. But finally I realized they were right, and that's who they were in the final version.
Yes, I know I am not being specific about this. I am doing that on purpose. I want you to experience the story the way I did--a total surprise!
DEBS: Your books starts in Boston, but then heads way out to western Massachusetts. Why?
HANK: Oh gosh, I adore the Berkshires, in western Massachusetts, my husband and I go every summer to take peaceful walks in the woods, and go to art museums, and try wonderful new restaurants, see every play we can, pay homage to Edith Wharton at The Mount, and enjoy the glorious music of the Boston Symphony at Tanglewood. The rolling hills and gorgeous scenery are absolutely immersive, there's a peace and a calm in the Berkshires that is like nowhere else.
However. It's also a place where many people go just for the summer, And the dynamic between the summer people and the people who live there year-round can be full of simmering conflict. As one character in the book admires the graceful geese flying overhead, another character sneers, and says: if you had to clean up golf courses after the geese depart, you would not be so in love with them.
Two different worlds. Beautiful on the outside, but sometimes festering on the inside. And that's what shapes the story.
DEBS: Where are you in your family's birth order? Do you have sisters? Tell us one thing you learned from your mother or your sisters--something that we hear in the book.
HANK: I grew up with three sisters and a brother, and I am the oldest. And know best. As I remind them at every turn.
But when I was in college, I made a game called Familial Pursuits. It was all questions about our family's history. Like: “Who dented mom's new car? And how did it happen?” And “Who was home when the barn burned down?”. Let me tell you, we all had different answers to those questions. And we were all absolutely convinced our answers were right.
How did we all remember the same thing so differently? And what did we all assume about each other? In MOTHER DAUGHTER SISTER STRANGER, family memories, family legacies--and some terrifying murders-- are the center of the story.
As it says on the cover: Every family has its legacy, and this one's deadly.
DEBS: I love the title, too. Because everyone of us is at least one of those nouns, right? And some of us are all of them. I'm a mother, and a daughter, and a stranger to many people.
HANK: Yeah, so true! I'm a daughter and a sister and a stranger. And the way we play those roles is what dictates our lives. What would you do if your mother went missing? What if she had lied to you from the start?
DEBS: Whoa. Love this. Congratulations, Hank!
HANK: Thank you! SO exciting! I’ll be on book tour for about two weeks—hope to see some of you out there! (And I just saw Amanda in one of my online classes! SO fabulous!). Here’s my schedule.
DEBS: Reds and Readers, What's your birth order? And do you think it has made a difference in who you are and how you face the world?
And Hank is giving a copy of Mother Daughter Sister Stranger to one lucky (US only) commenter!


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Congratulations, Hank!
ReplyDeleteIn our family, Jean and I are the oldest; then comes our sister, then our brother.
I'm certain that birth order makes a difference but I think being twins makes more of a difference in who we are and how we face the world . . . .
Sounds like a book I'll enjoy reading - congratulations, Hank! I'm the oldest of four on one side of the ocean and three on the other side. Responsible and smart (I guess).
ReplyDeleteCongratulations Hank!
ReplyDeleteI am all of the things in the book title and I am the third child of 4 in my family. My younger sister and I are very close in age; growing up we were always “the girls” even though our eldest sibling is also a girl. Like Joan being a twin that shaped who we are as well as our order in the family.
First, congratulations on the new book. What a luscious theme. To your question: oldest - definitely- one sister- different family dynamics because of events we experienced at different ages and the differences in our talents and perspective on everything ( note the repetitive use of the word different except for politics).
ReplyDeleteHank - First mega congrats on this latest book! Second, that online class was AMAZING; I learned so much. Third, I am the middle child - an older sister and a younger brother surround me. Need I say more? Beleaguered, maligned, teased. Somehow I survived, and we are fine with each other today (though it takes not much to revert to the old birth order disorders...).
ReplyDeleteCongratulations, Hank! Family relationships can be fraught.
ReplyDeleteMy brother was 13 months older than me. I am sure that was a very impactful dynamic. But my father's family of six siblings was extremely close and the first six cousins, a boy and a girl in each family, called ourselves "the big six." All together fifteen cousins with special friendships across age groups. Many cousins are as close as siblings.
that's so cool about all your cousins Judy! I bet the other kids would kill to be included in the big six:)
DeleteCongratulations, Hank, on your new book! I am the fourth of five children in a 12-year span. My younger sister and I are 19 months apart and were raised almost as twins, "the Little Girls," dressed alike for convenience, etc. This became tough as it grew clear that we have completely opposite personalities and interests. She was blonde, athletic, and very pretty, I was plain with brown hair and glasses and was always reading. Athlete and cheerleader v. Latin Honor Society. There was a lot of painful friction. I'm sure in my first 18 years it was my relationship with this sister that impacted my life more than any other apart from mine with my parents. (Selden)
ReplyDeleteI hope you're writing that memoir Selden!
DeleteI was second of four but I act act bossy as if I had been #1! My older sister and I were 11 months apart, we were called "the girls" and were very very close. she says we raised each other, and I think that's probably true.
ReplyDeleteCongratulations Hank on your upcoming release.
ReplyDeleteI'm my father's oldest and my mom's second child and I do believe birth order makes you the person you are.
Congratulations Hank! The book sounds fabulous!
ReplyDeleteBirth order is a bit tricky when it comes to twins. I was technically the middle child, born one minute after my beloved womb-mate. We have a sister who's 4 1/2 years younger. My twin is definitely more bossy and "in charge" than I am. I was the one who would make jokes to break the tension. However, together, we were a formidable combo of older-sibling oppressors towards our dear Kit. We called her the "Holy Terror" or the "brat." She also hated the double dose of hand-me-down dresses.
Congratulations Hank. I am Mother Daughter, Sister, Stranger – and outlier. I am the oldest, and would be described completely differently depending on who you asked in my family. Lots of people think my sister was the oldest, but she was the bully and the most mouthy – GOD syndrome – she believed she was. I always walked a different road, and proud of it. Also stubborn.
ReplyDeleteCongratulations Hank! I always enjoy hearing about your writing process. I am the oldest of three girls. I was also the sickest and spent portions of time in the hospital and recovering from being in the hospital. I would say birth order and circumstances beyond our control definitely shape who we are and how we envision the world. I found it most revealing when my youngest sister gave my mom's eulogy. She lived a very different life and knew a very different set of parents than I did. I suspect we all had our perspective and perception of events and it was heavily influenced not only by birth order, but also by life experiences as children and that carried over into adulthood. -- Victoria
ReplyDeleteI'm on the library's request list for your new book. Lots of others are, also, so it may be a while until I get my hands on it. It sounds so intriguing. I'm the middle child and when my bothers and I reminisce, it always surprises us with how different the family stories are. JackieLemon
ReplyDeleteI am the eldest of three and truly, I do know best. However, lately, in recounting memories that are all different concerning the same event, I no longer tell them they are wrong. I have pivoted to "my memory is a little different." and then proceed to tell them what really happened. I always caution them that memories are very tricky and cannot be trusted.
ReplyDeleteI have two very different photos that show me as a teenager. In one I am holding a long gun. A gun! In the other I am in a small boat with my brother and old boyfriend. Absolutely no idea of when or where or any memory at all of those events. I would have sworn neither had happened; I would have passed a lie detector test with flying colors. Yet, the photo exists, proof of something I have no memory of. Weird.
I'm looking forward to it. Like "Anonymous" above the library list is long, but anticipation is great. I'm an only child so this is a twist for me.
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