Thursday, July 23, 2026

Celia Anne Constable Wakefield 1943-2026

JULIA SPENCER-FLEMING: Dear readers, this is a post I never wanted to write. After a valiant 17-month fight with a particularly aggressive form of Adenoid Cystic Carcinoma, our dear Celia passed away. Her family had been with her, and friends had been visiting up until the last, sudden five days.

I'm a professional writer, but I can't find the words to say all that her friendship meant to me. I can say during the pandemic and the years afterwards, when she was unable to get out much because she was caring for her beloved Victor, this community was a Godsend. She felt she knew you, and that you knew her, and that broadened her world.  

The fact she was unable to do all the traveling (and mystery conferences) she had planned after Victor's passing leaves me more than a little bitter, and I know we don't swear on this blog, but Fuck. Cancer. It's taken far too many of the best of us.

She did make an appearance at last year's Crime Bake, and I thank everyone who helped plan her get-together, who stopped by, who hugged her and who gave her books or ARCs. (She loved getting ARCs - it made her feel like a mystery insider.) I leave you with her obituary, which I've annotated with links to some of her wonderful blog posts. Pick a recipe, invite friends over, and enjoy a meal together. That was the Celia Wakefield way.

 

 

 Celia Wakefield, of Limerick, Maine, died peacefully on June 27, 2026, at the age of 82. Born in 1943 in London, England, she was the daughter of Douglas and Patricia Constable. 


Celia led an adventurous early life. At six, she left London with her parents for Trinidad, where her father worked as an agronomist. After her sister and brother were born in 1950 and 1951, the family relocated to Ceylon. Celia returned to boarding school in the UK at 12. She rejoined her family in Ghana three years later. At 18, she moved back to London, lived on a houseboat on the Thames, and worked as a secretary at IBM, where she met Victor, her husband of 55 years. 


They married on May 23, 1969, and soon moved to New York City. They relocated to Chappaqua after their daughter, Olivia, was born in 1970 and they became U.S. citizens in 1993. 


Celia was a gifted costume maker, beginning with Olivia’s school productions and later bringing her creative talents to the Revels. She was also an accomplished cook and entrepreneur, founding The British Butler, a catering business, in the 1980s. Her smoked trout pâté was especially beloved. She loved music and dancing, spent happy summer weeks at Pinewoods Camp, and actively supported the Country Dance and Song Society (CDSS). 


In 1999, Celia and Victor retired to their home on Lake Arrowhead in Maine, where they enjoyed entertaining friends and life by the lake.
She is survived by her daughter, Olivia, and son-in-law, Ken Wechsler; grandsons, Aidan and Connor Lee; her sister, Ros Constable, and Ros’ partner, Sandra Jenner. She was predeceased by her brother, Andrew, and is survived by his wife, Tina Redge Constable, and their children, Ella and Luke Constable. 


In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to The Revels, Pinewoods Camp, Inc., or Dana-Farber Cancer Institute.  

86 comments:

  1. Oh, Julia, what a loss. For your dear friendship first; sending you a virtual hug. For Olivia, who has now lost both parents after long illnesses, and for the rest of their family.

    Realizing this morning that I never, in the end, got to meet Celia in person. But somehow it feels as if we had and were old friends. Thank you for sharing your mutual, warm friendship with this community, she will be so missed.

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    1. Thank you, Karen. I don't think you need to meet in person to know and care for someone. Generations of letter-writers have taught us that.

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  2. What sad news . . . such a great loss for you, for Celia's family, for everyone who enjoyed her posts and her recipes . . . Our thoughts and prayers are with all her family and friends.

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  3. Very sad news. What a loss. On this blog alone, quite apart from her recipes, Celia was always so warm and encouraging of all. My sympathies to all who knew and loved her. (Selden)

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    1. She really was, Selden, and I'm glad this community got to know her!

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  4. oh no, I'm so sorry to hear this. I'm so glad I had the chance to meet her. She will be missed.

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  5. Julia thank you so much for introducing us to Celia and for sharing her with us. I feel very blessed to have gotten to meet her in person last year at Crime Bake and I am very grateful to you and to Olivia for bringing her.
    Here is a Celia story you may not know. When my brother became ill and then died of complications of covid, I bemoaned the fact that he had been a life long hoarder and that he left an apartment and 3 storage units all piled to the ceiling. I was responsible for clearing it all out. Even before he passed away, Celia contacted me directly to give me comfort and advice. As a professional organizer, her phone calls provided great advice and informationt and also loads of comfort. May her memory ever be a blessing.

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    1. Oh, that is lovely. And so like Celia.

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    2. Judy, she never told me that! It sounds so much like her. She was a fount of practical support for anyone who needed it.

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    3. What a lovely and generous person she was

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  6. Now I'm starting the day weeping. Thank you, Julia, for sharing this news, but what very sad news it is. I hope Olivia reads this today. She will see how much we all loved the remarkable Celia. Your videos of her cooking brought her right into our lives in such a happy way.

    I'm so glad I got to meet both of them at Crime Bake last year. Celia was obviously delighted to be there, and we were delighted to hoist a glass and chat with her and with Olivia.

    And now I want my own obituary to read, "She led an adventurous life." In Celia's case, it sounds like her entire life was adventurous, not just her early years. What a tribute to a joyous and fearless soul.

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    1. Edith, she was so very fond of you, and it made her day whenever she had a new book of your to read. Thank you for being so thoughtful and generous to her.

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  7. I’m so sorry to hear this sad news. I always loved reading Celia’s posts, and even tried her recipes a few times. I’m thinking about her family and friends today.

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  8. Celia’s cooking posts and videos are among my favorites. What a loss for her family and for you and for us. She had a life well-lived.

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    1. She did, Brenda, and it's a good lesson for the rest of us. Even shut-in, she lived her life to the fullest.

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  9. Oh Julia, such sad news -for Celia’s family, for you, and for for this blog family. I’d say Celia led an adventurous life her whole life! I’ll miss her comments here. May Celia’s memory ever be a blessing.

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  10. I'm very sorry for your loss Julia. I know what a good friend she was to you, and you to her. That's not easy to find. xox

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    1. This is the first time I've lost a friend! It's rather bewildering, I have to say.

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  11. I am so so sorry to hear this news. My deepest condolences to you, Julia, as well as all of Celia's friends and family.

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  12. Julia,
    My sincere condolences on the loss of your dear friend, Celia.
    Dianne Mahoney

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    1. Dianne, this is polite and old-fashioned and Celia would have LOVED it. Thank you.

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  13. I loved Celia's blog posts and recipes and reading about her life at the lake with Victor. I'll miss her presence on FB and the blog. Keeping her family and close friends in my thoughts and prayers.

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    1. She did love sharing life on her beloved lake, Margaret, I'm glad you all got a taste of it.

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  14. Sad. I'll miss her commentary, her enthusiasm, and the love she obviously felt for all on this page.

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  15. I am so sorry for your loss of her frienship and I'm glad to have been at last year's Crime Bake. And yes - cancer is the cruelest foe as I think of personal losses in the last year.

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    1. I'm glad you were at Crime Bake as well, Maren - that evening was a very special memory for her.

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  16. Just reading the title brought tears to my eyes.
    Thanks to you Julia she became a member of this community.
    I appreciated her comments and her participations a lot. She will be missed .
    The obituary speaks of a very full life, her suffering is over and she can join her lover Victor.
    My thoughts and my prayers are with you Julia and with family and friends.

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    1. Thank you so very much, Danielle. Her daughter said something similar - her parents hadn't been apart more a few days until he died, and now their reunited again.

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  17. You have saddened my day. I am so glad to have ‘met’ her and will remember her when I listen to the Opera on Saturday afternoons, or hope that this Sunday will be a most anticipated recipe from her with an accompanied wonderful story. She (and Victor) are two souls that I would have loved to have met in this life. She was loved by all and will be missed.
    Julia, if she has a funeral and if you attend, I would be interested in her choice of music. I always like to imagine what the person would choose as a legacy to their life, or how the family remembers her. I think it is telling of one’s personality and life lived. (My cousin played herself in during covid. The family had a recording of her playing a cello concert and used that as the beginning of the service – weird but ethereal.)

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    1. Yes. Julia, if we haven't already missed a memorial service, will you please share those details for those of us who might be able to attend?

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    2. Celia was recently buried in the Maine woods joining Victor in a wonderfully serene spot with a fitting memorial gathering. She knew her JRW community surrounded her.

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    3. Thank you, Charlotte. I'm sorry to have missed the service and am glad she's next to Victor.

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    4. The family kept it private, Edith. It was small but rich in peace and spirit.

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  18. Oh so sad. I enjoyed Celia's posts so much, as well as interacting with her here. She was a treasure. Rest well, Celia, you are missed! Thanks for sharing the sad news with us and the obituary, Julia. Fuck Cancer!

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  19. I am so sorry to read this. I didn't know her personally like some of you, but from her comments and posts here I could see what a sweet person she was. I'm sorry she's gone. My deepest condolences to her family.

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  20. Hank Phillippi Ryan RyanJuly 23, 2026 at 8:45 AM

    “Her smoked trout pate was especially beloved” — That is about the most Celia thing I have ever heard. What a treasure she was, and I adored her recipes and performances here on Jungle Red. One of a kind. Thank you, Julia, for introducing us, and for this wonderful tribute. Let’s all have some trout pate— And celebrate a life well And interestingly lived.

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    1. She had an amazing gift for friendship and hospitality, and her trout pate was emblematic of that, Hank!

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  21. I'm saddened to learn about Celia's passing. I was Facebook friends with her though we didn't interact much there. Still, the passing of one of our mystery community hurts no less.

    Julia was right....Fuck Cancer.

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    1. Someday, it will be gone, like smallpox, and what a day that will be.

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  22. Julia, I am sending you a virtual hug! Your news was stunning and not in a good way at all. I find comfort in the thought that she and Victor are together now. I will truly miss her. Often on those Sundays when I knew, or at least hoped, that she would be sharing your post I woke up wondering what treat she would have for us. I can't thank you enough for sharing your friend with the world!

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    1. It was my delight to do so, Judi, and now I'm so happy to have this whole collection of her words and memories.

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  23. What a lovely tribute to dear Celia, and what an interesting life she had. She always had such interesting comments to make here at JRW and she will be missed so much.

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    1. She did have an interesting life, Anon, and I'm grateful she shared some of that with us.

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  24. I felt like I knew Celia through her cooking videos, her recipes, and her wonderful comments on this blog. Julia, I'm sorry you've lost such a lovely and loving friend. Thank you for sharing those details about her life, which sounds like it was full and happy. What a dear person she was! I won't forget her.

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    1. Thank you, Kim! She had friends all over the world; she'd have been delighted to count you in Switzerland.

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  25. What a beautiful tribute to your very dear friend, Julia. Thank you for giving us the opportunity to get to know her. And with others here I want to be remembered for an adventurous life.

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  26. Oh damn and blast. What sad news. I felt like I knew Celia though we only ever met on this blog and by occasional email note. She was a reader of my own blog; I loved knowing she read my words. Celia was generous, funny and both interesting and interested. All this I know from my online friendship with her. I can imagine the force she must have been in real life. Sending love to her flesh-and-blood family -- and to all her JRW family, too. xo

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    1. She very much enjoyed your blog, Amanda, and would recommend pieces you wrote to me. Your thoughts about later-in-life creativity inspired her. Thank you for being her friend.

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  27. F*ck cancer indeed.

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  28. I am so sorry to hear this! It seems our little community has lost too many gems too soon. Celia's presence on this blog will be deeply missed. And Julia, while in general I am glad that "we don't swear on this blog," I can't think of a more appropriate use for an F-bomb. Sometimes, no other word will do.

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  29. Aww, shoot. What a loss for us, but I’m so happy we got to spend time with her virtually. F*ck cancer.

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    1. She loved virtually hanging out here, Lisa, and I'm so glad she had this community.

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  30. A friend of mine and I shared a common greeting when we got together. "Cancer sucks." No how are you feeling or any other way of saying hello. Just a hug and the comment. He passed away and sadly I've had many opportunities to say those words, including when my dearest friend died of pancreatic cancer. So Julia, sending you virtual hugs because I know how heart breaking it is to lose a dear friend. And because any other words fall short, all I have to say is, "Cancer sucks."

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  31. Thank you for this moving tribute, Julia. I feel we all knew Celia thanks to Jungle Reds. May she be happily with Victor above the stars

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  32. Well, BLAST! Just last night I was thinking we hadn't had a recipe from Celia this summer and was wondering if she would guest blog on a Monday soon. Thank you for sharing your friendship of Celia with the rest of us, Julia.

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    1. It was my delight to introduce her to you all, Deanna. It won't surprise you to know she was still planning her next blog contribution just weeks before she died!

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  33. I’m so sorry to hear of Celia’s passing. Like everyone else, I enjoyed her comments and looked forward to her recipe blogs. She will be so missed but we have delightful memories of Celia.

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    1. We do, and I'm so grateful I got her started on blogging here, Katherine. It adds to her legacy.

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  34. I am so sorry for Celia’s loss to all who loved her. You all are such lovely people to hang around with. I hope you will enjoy stories of Celia forever. With sincere condolences, Cheryl Slover

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  35. My condolences to you, Julia, on the loss of such a dear friend. I'm sorry I never got to meet Celia in person, but I felt as if I knew her and I so looked forward to her posts and especially her stories about her adventurous life. Thank you for introducing us to such a remarkable person.

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  36. Thank you, Julia, for bringing Celia into my life through posts by you and her on the front of the blog and through her comments here on the back. And thank you for doing the difficult task of sharing your grief. Celia’s life was a blessing. Sending gentle caring thoughts to you. Celia is no longer where she was, she is wherever you are. Elisabeth

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  37. Oh Julia, though I had been expecting this for a while, it’s still a shock this morning to learn that our Celia passed away. She is in good company with Sam Neill and Kaylee Hottle who passed away today his week. I noticed that Celia was born in England during the Second World War. She made it to 82! Julia, you were blessed to know Celia. Though I never was fortunate enough to meet her in person, I remember her kindness and thoughtfulness. It was always a privilege to read her recipes. Please extend our condolences to Celia’s family. In Celia’s honour ( I’m using the British spelling deliberately), I’m going to bake a delicious meal from one of her recipes.

    Diana

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  38. I was just thinking about Celia a day or two ago, wondering how she was doing. I’m glad to know she’s no longer suffering, but what an incredible loss for her family and friends. While I enjoyed her recipes, I especially enjoyed her videos of cooking with you, Julia. Your friendship and love for each other came through the screen as if we were there, laughing along with you. I’m very sorry for your personal loss, Julia. Thank you for sharing Celia with us. — Pat S

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  39. I did not have an opportunity to meet Celia in person.
    When she first mentioned her illness she had included her email which I responded to by trying to offer her encouragement and some suggestions to help occupy her time.
    I had a brief exchange with her and, when she found that I didn’t live that far away, she extended an invitation to me to come to her residence for a possible appearance that Julia was going to make for her latest book. I wish I had been able to attend.
    I later contacted her when she wrote about her setback and the hopes for the new treatment she would be receiving. I also told her that I would be including her in the prayers at the weekly service I watch online.
    I always looked forward to her sense of humor and recipes when she provided her Sunday contributions to us.
    Perhaps some of her past appearances could be repeated as one of the twice weekly posts

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  40. Condolences for Celia and her family. Thanks for all the recipes from Celia and her interesting commentary. Marjorie

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  41. Oh Julia, the loss of an old friend leaves a huge and vacant hole in one’s heart. Life will never be quite the same. As we grow older this seems to happen so often, whether it is a friend from kindergarten or a beloved actor or that next door neighbor who never returned the dish when you made her a casserole, people we loved in different ways but all part of our lives.
    I too cared for Celia and what she added to my life. The sadness we all feel is minuscule compared to what you are experiencing. It is true that “you can’t make old friends.”
    Celia’s loss doesn’t get better but it will get different one day. Meantime I join you in fuck bombing the universe, another thing to speak with our creator about when we meet. Whose idea was cancer anyway?
    Much love, Ann

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  42. She has moved out of the world. She stays in our hearts. Thank you for bringing her presence to all of us. I grieve with you.

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  43. Celia was such a delightful person -- smart, funny, interesting, and generous -- truly, a stellar soul and she will be missed so much. I am grateful to have gotten to know her over the past ten years. RIP, dear one.

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  44. Although I knew Celia’s health was failing, I never expected to see this news. I’m so sorry for the loss of your long-time friend, Julia. I always looked forward to her recipes and the stories that often came with them. I will be miss her contributions here.

    RIP Celia

    DebRo

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  45. I was thinking about Celia earlier. I've missed the wonderful Celia and Julia cooking show on Sundays. What a wonderful life she had from day one with her family and with Victor. I hope her passing was peaceful. May light perpetual shine upon her.

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  46. What awful news. Sending love and hugs to her family and to you, Julia. She sounds like a wonderful person.

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  47. Oh, Julia. This is sad news, indeed. She was a remarkable, delightful person. I know how deeply you cared for Celia, and how much she treasured you and your family. My deepest condolences.

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  48. Sorry for your loss, Julia, and for her family. Celia will be missed on the blog. My brother and mother died from cancer. It definitely sucks!

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