Wednesday, January 17, 2024

The Reinvention Intention

HANK PHILLIPPI RYAN: Happy Wednesday, Reds and Readers! Here's a quiz for you.


One of these books is a romance. One is an adorable cozy. And one is a taut, tense thriller. Can you guess which is which? Just from the cover?

 

 


 



















Well, Reds and Readers, I know you can! You know your book world stuff.

 

But think about this. The same person--the wonderful Daryl Wood Gerber-- wrote all of these.

 


Can you imagine what her brain must be like? She had to reinvent her storytelling procedure -- the vocabulary, the dialogue, the rhythm, the goal, the pacing, and well,everything! The thought process is different depending on what you're writing.

 

Funny, too, that today's guest is a TV actor! Who has taken on many roles in this spoken world. Still, Daryl Wood Gerber is always reinventing herself. And here's how she does it.

 

And see below for our giveaway on at Reds and Readers on Facebook today!

 

 

WE ALL NEED TO REINVENT OURSELVES

ALONG THE WAY

 

By Daryl Wood Gerber

 

 

We all need to reinvent ourselves occasionally, don’t we?  I learned this in my twenties, when I graduated college thinking I’d become an English teacher and wound up moving to Los Angeles to pursue a career as an actress.

 

Reinvention #1:  While starting out, I also managed a restaurant, worked as a legal secretary, and sold real estate.  When I started making a good living as an actress doing commercials, television, and stage work, I quit all my side jobs. It was delicious. But along the way, I grew tired of small roles. I wanted to be a “star.”  I was told to write a screenplay and produce it for myself. Easier said than done.

 

Reinvention #2: Because of that suggestion, I enrolled in a screenwriting workshop and learned how to write a tight and effective screenplay. In the process, I found I loved writing. I was even able to sell an idea for a sit-com, Out of this World, which ran for four years in first-run syndication.  But, alas, a career as a screenwriter was not meant to be because my husband got a huge promotion at ESPN and asked if I would mind moving across the country to support this career change. With only small parts open to me and the daunting task of breaking into the screenwriting market illusive, I said yes, and off we went.

 

Reinvention #3:  I landed in Orlando, Florida  (the supposed future location for ESPN offices) and after discovering that it was hard to “take a meeting” from 3,000 miles away—oh, if only Zoom had been invented by then—I gave up any hope of becoming a screenwriter and decided to try my hand at writing a thriller. I read books on writing. I wrote drafts. I was close to finishing a first one when we learned, not even a year after the move, that the southern location for ESPN was actually going to be in Charlotte, NC.

 

Reinvention #4:  We moved to Charlotte and settled in.  A new Sisters in Crime (SinC)group was opening up, and I jumped in. Unfortunately, none of us wrote the same kind of fiction, so the critique group we put together fizzled. But luckily I found the Guppies SinC online group, and that changed my life. I found a reliable critique group—we’re still friends, and all published—and due to feedback, I changed my genre to cozy mysteries. A reinvention of sorts, right? I still loved writing thrillers but found I had a very strong voice for cozies. In addition, living in Charlotte offered me the opportunity to work on stage. I sang, acted, and danced my way through our stay in the southeast.  A few years later, we made yet another move to Connecticut, home of the primary ESPN offices. I didn’t reinvent myself at that time. I continued writing mystery and continued to polish a few thrillers. Three years later, my husband retired, and we moved back to Los Angeles, where I continue to write mysteries as well as thrillers.

 

Reinvention #5:  It’s not really a reinvention, but I had a passion project that I’d come up with when I’d previously lived in Los Angeles. It was a gentle holiday-themed romance. Dare I write it? Yes, I dare. Because the market was hard to break into, I decided to self-publish it, and I’m glad I did. Will it ever be a blockbuster? No. But my heart was in it, and I’ve made quite a few readers happy. That’s enough for me.

 

As for reinvention . . . I think I’m done. I’m remaining a writer forever. My life has changed. My address has changed. My face has a lot more wrinkles. But my perseverance and desire to write the best book I can are as youthful as ever.  Perhaps that’s what reinvention does for one’s soul. It keeps us youthful and flexible.

 

Have you ever needed to reinvent yourself?

 

Hank:  Oh, many many times! Sometimes... daily. And reinventions don't have to be major, do they? Some days I just think: I'm not going to worry so much anymore.

Or I will try to be a person who organizes my freezer.

Or even... As I was talking  about with author Ashley Elston the other day... Just “give myself some grace, and try something new. Without fear of failure.”


And maybe it's not so much "re-invention" as it is discovering a part of you that was just waiting for you to find it.

 

How about you, Reds and Readers?


And don't forget to go to our Reds and Readers private Facebook group for today's question and giveaway!

 

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Daryl Wood Gerber is the Agatha Award-winning, nationally bestselling author of of The Fairy Garden Mysteries, featuring a fairy garden shop owner in charming Carmel, California, The French Bistro Mysteries, featuring a former chef who is now an up-and-coming bistro owner in Napa Valley, and The Cookbook Nook Mysteries, featuring an admitted foodie and owner of a cookbook store in picturesque coastal California. Under the pen name Avery Aames, Daryl writes the Agatha Award-winning, nationally bestselling The Cheese Shop Mysteries set in fictional Providence, Ohio. Daryl also writes suspense novels, including the Aspen Adams books and standalones, which have garnered terrific reviews.

Prior to her career as a novelist, Daryl wrote screenplays and created the format for the popular TV sitcom Out of this World. A fun tidbit for mystery buffs, Daryl was also an actress and co-starred on Murder, She Wrote, as well as other TV shows. Daryl is originally from the Bay Area and graduated from Stanford University. She loves to cook, read, golf, swim, and garden. She also likes adventure and has been known to jump out of a perfectly good airplane.


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  1. I love how you've "reinvented" yourself, Daryl, but am glad you decided to continue writing . . . .
    I don't know that I've reinvented myself as much as discovered something about myself . . . either way, it's interesting and eye-opening . . . and sometimes rather surprising.

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    1. Joan, that's so true. It is surprising, which makes it fun. ~ Daryl

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    2. I just love those days!

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  2. I really should reinvent myself. The trouble is, I don't know as what.

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    1. Mark, you don't need to reinvent yourself, but be open to change. That's the key. ~ Daryl

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    2. Maybe that means you’re happy! And that’s a good thing…

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  3. Thanks for the introduction to this new, versatile writer. And for the inspiration to write in different voices!

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    1. Becky Sue, so lovely to see you here! Glad I could inspire. ~ Daryl

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    2. Sometimes it’s about listening to your inner voices….

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  4. I wish I could reinvent myself into someone who doesn't suffer from constant pain to someone who can enjoy life. At least I have books to help me get by. Daryl I love all your series. I haven't read the thrillers yet but they are on my list.

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    1. Paula, I wish you didn't have to suffer, as well. Hopefully reading gives you moments of freedom from it. ~ Daryl

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    2. We love you, PAULA!

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  5. Bravo, Daryl! I didn't know about the romance novel. I reinvented myself several times: I was an academic who veered into hi-tech early speech recognition, from there to childbirth educator and farmer, then to technical writer, and finally, gloriously, to mystery author.

    Aren't we lucky we can pivot and keep finding new things to do with ourselves?

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    1. Edith, your journey amazes me!! Yes, we are lucky. ~ Daryl

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    2. Thank you, Hank. I think those are qualities many of us have, especially you!

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    3. Not just persistent and determined, but kind and welcoming! XXOO, Edith!

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  6. As an elementary school teacher I reinvented myself daily. One has to be flexible and remember that a lesson plan is just a plan and isn’t cast in stone. Changes need to be made based on what is going on in the school, if there is a fire drill, a child is upset. You get the idea.
    This post brought up my pet peeve! As an educator of 40+ years, it drives me crazy when people say or write ‘’graduated college’’ instead of ‘’graduated from college’’ or high school! One graduates from something! In this post there was ‘’graduated college’’ and ‘’graduated from Stanford University’’!

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    1. Ah, yes, Dorothy, nothing is cast in stone. Wise words. ~ Daryl

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    2. Planning is a good thing… But trying to plan for 30 students is impossible! You are a hero!

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    3. Hank Phillippi Ryan, Thanks 😊
      In the late 1960s I had 34 to 37 students in my grade four classroom and there were no other adults in my classroom to support those students who had special needs!

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    4. Dorothy Young, thanks for addressing the “graduated” vs. “graduated from” grammatical issue. My eye always catches the lack of the “from”.

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  7. After spending 25 years as a youth basketball coach, where it became nearly a year-round thing because of the winter and summer leagues, I found myself out of the league 13 years ago. I needed to find something else to do. And while it wasn't quite planned per se, the reinvention of myself to a reviewer of albums, concerts and books is how things all shook out.

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    1. Jay, good for you. What a huge change for you. Good on you for being flexible. Perhaps being a athletic coach had something to do with that. :) ~ Daryl

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    2. And something you weren’t certain about initially… Became such a success!

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    3. Daryl, well I had to find something to do with myself once I found I had all this free time on my hands after all those years. I lucked out finding a new passion.

      Hank, definitely wasn't certain. And I don't know if I'd call it a success per se but as long as someone thinks what I have to say is worth publishing, I'll keep plugging away at it.

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  8. Daryl, you are an inspiration!

    I've done the reinvention thing many times. I worked retail, was an EMT on our local ambulance service, owned a photography business, trained horses, taught yoga, and finally found my way back to my true passion of writing. But the good part about all those reinventions is I get to use them in my stories!

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    1. Annette, that is so inspiring! I didn't know you were an EMT. I knew the other aspects. Wow. Good for you. ~ Daryl

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    2. I am always in all that you are an EMT!

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  9. DARYL: Great to see you visiting JRW again! You know I enjoy reading both your suspense & various cozy series. Congratulations on your new foray into romance novels.
    I knew about some of your re-inventions, but learned a lot more about you & your various moves today.

    Yes, I have had to reinvent myself in my career. I morphed from a regular climatologist to a climate change researcher in the mid-1980s. Our research unit at Environment Canada were amongst the pioneers doing that type of research. We had few guides or mentors. I had to learn how to become an academic, submitting journal manuscripts & research grants & teaching graduate students at the University of Toronto.

    Then I got a lay-off notice in 2013 (bogus reason: lack of work, no need for climate change research). I accepted a new job and moved from Toronto to Ottawa in 2014. I worked as a strategic planner for a directorate of 900 staff running Canada's 24/7 water monitoring program. I was always organized & worked on multiple projects & deadlines in my past work but this new position required me to amp up my planning & multi-tasking skills to the max. A lot of curveballs were thrown my way & I had to learn how to adjust on the fly. I actually loved it, but the career lifespan of this type of strategic planner is 1-2 years. I lasted 2.5 years before throwing in the towel & fully retiring from the Canadian federal government.

    After joining Facebook in 2016 (I know, pretty late), I saw how many of my fave (cozy) mystery authors were being dropped by publishers (Save The Cozies FB group was one of the first I joined). I also read mysteries but never posted reviews publicly. I joined Netgalley as a reviewer, and have now posted over 600 reviews. This has brought me more fully into the mystery fiction community, and I am grateful.

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    1. Grace, 600 reviews? Yipes. That's a ton. How lovely of you to do that for authors as well as readers. We appreciate you. ~ Daryl

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    2. No need for climate change research. That is incredibly sad…

      And you are amazing! Such an important part of the community – – and congratulations on your guest of honor slot!

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    3. Wow, Grace. I didn't know you had posted so many reviews. I'm very grateful for good book reviewers and always on the lookout for them.

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    4. HANK: Yes, that decision by a former Prime Minister had long-reaching impacts. He was from Alberta oil sands country and really did not want to support any further climate change research being done by his government. The "lack of work" reasoning prevented any new climate change work to be done by the Government of Canada for a 5-year period (2013-2018). As a result, we had a brain drain of the next generation of researchers. Several newly minted Ph.D who wanted to do climate change research with us left Canada to go to other institutes in Europe & the USA. And us veteran climate change researchers had to go find another job, too.

      And yes, being a prolific Netgalley reviewer, certainly raised my profile within the mystery fiction community. It was a factor in my GOH selection next year.

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    5. KIM: You are a good example of a new author I found on Netgalley after seeing raved reviews here on JRW by DEBS, Jim Ziskin about your debut novel PESTICIDE. I downloaded that ARC, reviewed it and was happy to meet you in person last year at San Diego Bouchercon and to get you to autograph book #2, SONS AND BROTHERS.

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  10. What a good story you have, Daryl -- so many different stories in your one life!

    My own favourite reinvention is probably as a college instructor. I moved into the classroom from the corporate office space and simply loved the creative energy of teaching.

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    1. Amanda, I would have loved to teach college students. It was an aim at first...but things changed. ~ Daryl

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    2. Isn’t it so much fun when you encounter a student? Who really gets it? Or whose life you could really change?

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    3. I was never a certified teacher, but encountered many kids and adults in 4-H. The most 'memorable' were not always the ones with their hands-up, but those who shone their light in the corner. They were the ones who needed us.

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  11. Big fan here, Daryl, although it seems I am woefully behind in your series. Your reinvention really took!

    My husband says I have a varied, but not checkered, past. Lots of pivoting through the years: retail sales/manager, insurance sales/business consultant, kitchen and bath designer, sewing teacher, author, national speaker, online crafts editor, freelance writer, Master Gardener. Never a dull moment.

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    1. Karen, wow, those are many and multi-faceted changes. Good for you~ Daryl

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    2. That is so impressive! So much experience to draw from!

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  12. So many life experiences and locations to feed your mystery writing! I've worked in different fields and moved around the country, all of which feeds my writing.

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    1. Margaret, moving definitely made a difference for me, as well. You have to be adaptable. ~ Daryl

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  13. I believe I have always been myself with the changes being in what I focused on.

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    1. Brenda, it does take focus, doesn't it? ~ Daryl

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  14. oh boy can I relate! Thanks for sharing Daryl. I started in technical writing (short, clear, the reader gets in and out as quickly as possible, no "narrator") went on to writing fiction (engage the reader and hold them, characters narrate) and now I'm jumping into essays (the WRITER narrates) and the form is short.

    Daryl, wondering what you learned as a screenwriter (something I've never done) that helped you transition to crime novels?

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    1. Hallie, good for you regarding essays. That is NOT my strong suit. :) What I learned from screenwriting was that a solid thriller needs at least 5 turning points. The inciting incident has to come fast. The rollercoaster ride then has to take you up and up until the climactic moment. But it's not a straight shot. Straight is boring. A good rollercoaster ride needs lots of twists and turns. But why am I telling you? You're the maven when it comes to teachiing story and plot twists. Love you book on writing mysteries! So helpful. ~ Daryl

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    2. Love this, Daryl. You and Hallie are quite the powerhouse team!!

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  15. I never thought about it, but I guess I have "re-invented" myself. I went from an aspiring lawyer, to an aspiring teacher, to working in high-tech, to writing fiction. Although I do the last two simultaneously.

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    1. Wow, Liz, that's a lot of changes. Yes, you have! Kudos. ~ Daryl

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    2. Perfect. with lots learned along the way!

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  16. Reinvention is to me just a part of living. See the opportunity and take it, as you never know where it will lead you. Went from lab work in a children’s hospital, to scientific lab work in industry. Mother, farmer, greenhouse worker, still farmer, Home Depot, Old people caregiver, mother, now old person. Now we reinvent by trying new things in horticulture (black tomatoes this season), and are learning bird identification, and trying to improve the area for Monarchs. This year we are trying to grow trees from seed – may have to wait a while to see how that turns out.
    I met the Harrumper on a blind date. Twenty-one days later we were married (no, I was not pregnant). 47 years later we are still re-inventing. Just like what we have for supper – it may be good or not, but tomorrow will be another day and another recipe.

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    1. Margo, black tomatoes? Wow! They're probably good with squid ink pasta. :) And congrats on a long wonderful marriage. I'm impressed. ~ Daryl

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  17. I'd wanted to teach since kindergarten, but when I graduated from U of MN, there were no teaching jobs. Instead I worked for Prudential, first as a secretary and then as an Agent, picking up useful skills. When I moved back to St. Louis, I subbed and taught at a daycare, where I began storytelling, and then a jr. high. When they laid off a bunch of teachers, I traveled teaching study skills for a year and then found my "forever" school in St. Charles. Life is a series of pivots and plot twists, and an interesting trip!

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    1. Mary, that sounds like a wonderful, flexible transition into what you love. I'm happy for you. ~ Daryl

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  18. Aw, thanks, Lucy/Roberta. A number of us have pivoted, haven't we? It's a delightful challenge. ~ Daryl

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  19. Daryl, welcome to Jungle Red Writers and congratulations on all three books! It was lovely to see you again at Bouchercon. I saw you on Murder She Wrote. Hollywood's loss is our gain. Very happy that you are writing novels.

    Hank, yes I can tell the difference between the three covers. Since I already read the Fairy Garden mysteries, I know they are cozy mysteries. And since I am following Daryl on social media, I knew about her romance novel and suspense/thriller novel.

    Reinvention? I wonder if that is another way of saying "growing up and changing"? When I was a young child, believe it or not, I was good at math. Though I remember writing as a child. For a while, I stopped writing for various reasons (academic demands at Uni, among other reasons). Now I am writing again.

    Diana

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    1. Diana, so nice to see you here! Bouchercon was fun, wasn't it? And yes, reinvention is simply growing, changing, adapting to what comes. ~ Daryl

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  20. Daryl! You know I love you in all your incarnations, and if anyone here doesn't know, Daryl is an amazingly generous writing friend, and has helped so much with my Cyd Redondo novels. I don't care what genre it is, as long as you're writing it. xx

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    1. Wendall, my sweet friend, thank you for the lovely words. And congrats to Wendall, everyone. She's nominated for the best humorous novel for Left Coast Crime. Don't miss it. Cheap Trills. Yes, trills. Cyd saves endangered birds in the story! ~ Daryl

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  21. Daryl, I imagine acting would be great preparation for writing in different genres and voices. I will look for your books.

    I think life requires a lot of flexibility, and while I haven't gone through many drastic changes, I have made decisions that took me in different directions. My work at 9-1-1 required a lot of flexible thinking and an ability to shift gears quickly when new information came in. When I retired from 9-1-1, I started volunteering at a day care and that eventually led to a little job which I loved. I imagine the aging process will bring many more opportunities for flexibility and adjustment.

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    1. Gillian, I agree that as we age, and our bodies and minds change, we are faced with new challenges that we have to adapt to. I'm in awe that you worked at 9-1-1. Kudos! ~ Daryl

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  22. Thanks for an excellent post, Daryl! One thing I couldn't help thinking as I read it was that in order to accomplish the magnitude of successful pivots you did, one must start with a pretty deep well of talent.

    I spent more than 25 years in marketing, part of it in the banking industry and part in technology. After a few false starts at that point, I fully transitioned into professional fundraising for non-profits. The last 15 years or so of my career was spent in that space, which I found much more personally rewarding, if a lot less lucrative. Now I'm in my second year of retirement and honestly, still figuring out what that means for me. There have been a few comments today that have piqued my interest and may send me out exploring possibilities I had not previously considered.

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    1. Susan, isn't it wonderful when a comment in a blog can inspire you to new heights, new decisions. That's what these discussions are all about. Wishing you a bright and fun-filled future. ~ Daryl

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    2. Susan, I retired a little over two years ago. I have friends who are newly retired who ask me how to figure out what they “should” do with their time. My advice is to take at least a year. Figure out what you enjoy doing now you have time to do whatever it is. (I found I’m very good at reading for enjoyment!) — Pat S

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    3. Susan, I retired a little over two years ago. My newly retired friends ask me how to determine what they should do with their time. My advice is to take at least a year to figure out what you like to do, now you have time to do different things. (Unsurprisingly, I found that I like reading!) — Pat S

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    4. Sorry for the redundancy. Blogger seemingly rejected my first comment. Pat

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    5. SUSAN: I echo Pat S's suggestion of taking a year to figure out your new "routine" in retirement. That's what I did. Tried a bunch of new activities to fill out my former M-F 8 am-4 pm time in the office. I eventually figured it out.

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  23. Much like Daryl, I've reinvented myself a handful of times. My first career: actress in Hollywood. Second, film production at AFI. Third: magazine editor. Fourth: helping someone else write a thriller. Fifth: helping my husband start a new business. Fifth, where I was supposed to be all along: writing my own novels.

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    1. Gay, how wonderful for you. That is definitely a lot of transitioning. Being flexible is the name of the game. Wishing you tons of success with your writing. ~ Daryl

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  24. Reinvented or acceptance of a job not being good fit. I recently listed my professions since graduating from college. Recreation, day care teacher, coordinator in a now defunct HMO and finally staffing coordinator for a home health agency. I didn't list the little filler one year jobs between the longer ones just the ones for more than five years.These are what I do, or did, to pay my bills but what about what I do, or did for fun? Reading for school assignments has always been accompanied by reading just for me. A summer school class has become never ending projects in crocheting and now picking up needlepoint again. We need to have the fun things to make life bearable, some are small it's are larger. Look at Daryl, she as been known to jump out a perfectly good airplane.

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    1. Deana, that is so true. Not a good fit. On my way to becoming an actress, I worked as a caterer, ran a restaurant, worked as a legal secretary, and sold real estate. Once my acting career took off, I was able to put those "other" jobs aside. None really suited me for a lifetime. I'm so glad I've made the detours I have. And yes, I did jump out of an airplane - with an instructor. It was so thrilling I did it a second time. Whee. ~ Daryl

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  25. Nice to meet you, Daryl; I'm impressed with your versatility, in your life and as a writer. I didn't start writing mysteries until my late fifties, but I suppose I saw that as a transition, not a reinvention. Some of you have made really dramatic changes--that takes courage!

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    1. Kim, I'm not sure it's courage as much as, what Deana said above, finding the right fit. The career that you find joyful. Then it doesn't feel so much like work. :) ~ Daryl

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  26. Daryl, I too wanted to act but went into BBC drama on the production side and tried my hand at radio and TV plays( first one was accepted ‘) l found that writing for screen and audio really honed my skills when I started writing books. Seeing every scene visually, bringing characters on and off, ending on a cliff hanger — all good! And a good writer can write anything her heart is in!

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    1. Rhys, I agree that seeing a book visually is a plus. I, too, like to visualize it all. The setting, the staging, the "acting." It's like working with my own cast and crew when I write. ~ Daryl

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  27. Daryl, I am stunned by your versatility and your success. I think that many of us have tried different types of jobs along the way, I certainly have. My favorite of all the things I have done was and still is mom.
    Considering the number of books you have written, I am slammed that I have not read one yet. I always read series from the beginning, if possible, and will seriously look at your cozy mysteries' locations and themes before I pick. The romance, however, is right up my alley right now as I look for happy endings.

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    1. Judy, I hope you will check them out. I've been blessed with a really solid career, thanks to a nudge here and there from good friends. ~ Daryl

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    2. Awww..love you, Judy! And we all look for happy endings! xxx

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  28. I was offered a job for a few months to digitize a series of really boring government papers for the Archives. To do this I had to hire 5 people. Many of the resumes were the usual - high school, university - you know the ones. I hired a lad who played soccer. I was asked why I chose that person, and I replied, it didn't matter if he knew how to scan and other things because those I could teach him, but by playing soccer (and that is what we talked about in the interview), I learned that he was a team player, he could change about and he could rethink on the spur of the moment. He was a great candidate, and over and above very funny and made great cookies.

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    1. Margo, that is a delightful story! My husband said the same thing. He hired people if he felt they were team players as well as self-starters. It makes a difference. ~ Daryl

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  29. Hi Daryl! I've missed your Facebook live videos. Are you still doing them? I don't reinvent so much as adapt to new situations, at least in the past. Now that my husband is retired I can reinvent and began with a move to a new place to a house I picked out. Next on my agenda is travel!

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    1. Hi, Pat, you're so sweet to say that. I stopped doing them when I realized I was getting the same 30-40 people and telling them pretty much the same thing. Maybe I'll start doing them again. I enjoyed chatting. :) Have fun traveling. ~ Daryl

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  30. Wonderful to see you here, Daryl! What an incredible journey you've had. Can't wait to see what you do next!

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  31. Hi, Daryl, always great to see you here!! I am so impressed by all of your projects and your inventiveness! (And going to check out the holiday romance!)

    I've definitely reinvented myself a few times. At the moment, I'd really like to reinvent myself as someone who writes faster!!

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    1. Deborah, I think you need to consult Jenn on how to do that! She's the queen of writing fast. I do make my deadlines, so that's a plus, but I fret over every word...and I mean every word. Argh. ~ Daryl

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  32. Hi , wow, this is great , your books sound so good! You sure have been a busy lady and I love how you write different genres! Looking forward to reading your books. Alicia Haney

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  33. The Son's Secret is a Tense Thriller. Hope for the Holiday is a Romance. A Twinkle of Trouble is Cozy. This last one is the one that I want to read immediately!

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    1. Thanks for letting me know. :)

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  34. When I retired after 37+ years of engineering and marketing, I was lost after going non-stop without an escape even on vacation! What to do with my days now? My husband decided to start dragging me to the local YMCA. Then, Covid hit and everything went to Zoom. So, I found a new YMCA with participants with lifestyles and experiences that complimented mine. Travel planning became my obsession now that no one was calling me back to the office. From there, on a cruise ship from San Diego through the Panama Canal to Fort Lauderdale, I found Mah Jong. Oddly enough, when I returned home and sought out venues to continue my new passion, I also discovered an avenue to explore various arts and crafts which reintroduced me to skills that were dormant. Yes, reading became an obsession, too, with Friends and Fiction weekly Zoom meetings. My reinvention keeps my brain active, but in a very relaxing yet challenging mode. ****The Son's Secret is a Tense Thriller. Hope for the Holiday is a Romance. A Twinkle of Trouble is Cozy. This last one is the one that I want to read immediately!

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    1. SO love hearing from you--thank you for everything!

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    2. Alicia, what a varied life you've led after retiring. Wow! Good for you. ~ Daryl

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