Showing posts with label fiction writing. Show all posts
Showing posts with label fiction writing. Show all posts

Monday, February 19, 2024

Trigger Warnings: Are They ALL Necessary?


Jenn McKinlay: Some time in that glorious week between Christmas and the New Year where time has no meaning, Hub and I went to see the movie AMERICAN FICTION. I had seen the trailer and the author bits resonated so resoundingly that I knew I had to see the movie. 


Well…it was not the satirical comedy I expected. I mean it was, but it was so much more. It was so very much more in fact, that in the first few minutes during a scene that was particularly poignant for me on a personal level, the Hub leaned over the tub of popcorn between us and asked, “Do we need to leave? It’s okay if we do.” I shook my head and soldiered on and I am so glad I did. Needless to say, I loved this movie but that’s not the point of my post. My point is that we now live in a world full of trigger warnings (not for real guns, because…yeah, let’s put a pin in that because if I start ranting I might never stop). Ahem. 


Emotional trigger warnings. They are everywhere. You pick up a book these days and before you can even read the first page, it warns you that there are discussions of eating disorders, mental illness, suicide, alcoholism, pet death, and on and on and on inside the novel – which is FICTION. 


Frankly, I have very mixed feelings about this because had I seen a trigger warning for AMERICAN FICTION for the scene that reduced me to a napkin clutching blubbering mess, I might have decided not to see one of the best movies I’ve seen in a long while. And that would have been a real shame. 


I’m also pondering the exact purpose of these warnings because a professional reviewer for one of the literary trade magazines dinged my upcoming book because it made her cry – she reduced it from five stars to four because there was no trigger warning in the advance copy she received. Yes, she said that.  *sigh*


So, how about it, Reds? How do you feel about having trigger warnings put in your books? Yay or nay and why?


HALLIE EPHRON: What I don’t like about trigger warnings is that they cast a shadow over the reading experience. I read in a protective crouch, waiting to be sideswiped by whatever I’ve been warned of. And it seems as if it’s being used as a big CYA across a very wide swath of narratives.


RHYS BOWEN:  I have had to deal with this so frequently recently. I had to put a foreword in one book to warn readers they may be shocked at the way the Brits treated the native Kenyans in 1935. Also about the way sexual predators were tolerated in those days. 


I felt like saying “It’s History. It’s how it was. I’m showing the truth. Get over it.” or, “Learn from it. Feel better that we have improved.”


I think one of the important things about reading is that it’s good to be shocked. We are shocked when a character is revealed to be a murderer, when we read about brutality in WWII  It’s good to be taken out of our comfort zone, to read something and know it isn’t right and feel angry or disgusted. Life cannot all be smoothed over for us. Life is sometimes gritty, unfair, brutal.


HANK PHILLIPPI RYAN:  I am so grateful to hear this about American FIction, Jenn. I had the same expectation that you did, and cannot wait to see it–but I’m gonna CRY?  WHAT? Can you tell me in an email what happens? Or wait–I’ll just look it up.


In that particular case, it seems like a marketing failure, then– they should say “poignant, heartbreaking and somehow hilarious and timely”:--then I’m at least warned. If promo content was simply clearer, we wouldn't need to have warnings that say: be careful, you might be upset. 


I fear I am not qualified to answer this, though, because there’s nothing that would upset me enough–if it were something that I’m not comfortable reading, I’d just stop. But other people’s lives are different from mine.


DEBORAH CROMBIE: Oh, this is so interesting. I don’t want to see trigger warnings on things I might be interested in reading. As Hallie said, I don’t want to be reading with expectations of whatever the dreaded thing is. A general idea of what the book is about is just fine. If it doesn’t sound like my cup of tea, I can pass. If I’m reading something and find it distressing, I can quit. I can’t imagine all the wonderful books I might have missed if they had come with warning labels, and I very much hope I’m never required to add one to my books.


LUCY BURDETTE: There is a lovely woman who reviews cozy mysteries who tells authors not to send books with suicide in them as she had a tragedy in her family and this is too hard for her. This to me makes sense–she knows what sets her off and she doesn’t want to read it. I think we should all be capable of assessing and making choices, right? Though I think Hank makes an excellent point about the marketing–the book jacket should give us enough of a hint to choose whether to buy and read the book–or not! Now I cannot wait to see American Fiction…


JULIA SPENCER-FLEMING: I can understand the importance of certain kinds of scenes perhaps being acutely painful to someone. I have a dear cousin who lost a child to a particular form of suicide, and I can imagine it feeling like a punch to the chest if she were to run across a depiction of that in a film or in fiction. On the other hand, I find graphic violence extremely disturbing  - as in, I’ve never seen all of THE GODFATHER - but you don’t tend to see explicit warnings for that, except for the pre-show “Warning: scenes of sex, smoking, bad language and violence” which is SO broad as to be useless.


My take? It should be in the individual to protect themselves if they are deeply sensitive to something. When I had kids, I didn’t want them exposed to violence, so I read up on any movies before I took them. I read books along with them, and read reviews. There’s SO much information out there, if you know you’re going to be traumatized by a scene with clowns, read up on the book before you buy it!


JENN: For a deeper discussion by information professionals about content warnings, I highly recommend this article in School Library Journal: Trigger Warnings and Emotional Distress


Lest you think I am being overly sensitive (dare I say, triggered?) about content warnings, there is a website -- BookTriggerWarnings.Com -- specifically devoted to letting readers know what books contain content that might be alarming for readers. Am I listed on this website? Yes, but weirdly, not for my murder mysteries -- you know, where there are MURDERS -- but rather for my romcom PARIS IS ALWAYS A GOOD IDEA because the main character is dealing with grief. No one dies. She's just finally dealing with it. 

The librarian in me loves that readers who are sensitive to certain topics can weed out content that they might find disturbing but the author in me can't help but think, who missed a comedic trip to Ireland, France, and Italy because they were shooed away from a book they might have enjoyed? Hmm.

Also, because I found this crowd sourced content warning site while researching this blog post, I have to share it for those who do want a heads up about the content of the media they consume: DoesTheDogDie.Com Interestingly, their format allows viewers to vote so there is some debate around each warning. Full disclosure, if I see a movie with a dog in it, I am totally checking it on this site before I watch.

What about you, Readers, what is your take on trigger warnings? Yay or nay and why?


Sunday, April 22, 2012

Fusion Food and Dialog

RHYS BOWEN: It's Sunday and we usually reserve today for writing tips or blogs about food. I'm going to combine both today. My son recently went to a restaurant called, if I remember correctly, Chopsticks and Chapattis. He thought that Chinese/Indian fusion food might be an interesting experiment.  He looked at the menu and decided on the Cumin Lamb. His dialog with the waitress went like this:
Son: This cumin lamb sounds good. Tell me about it.
Waitress: Well. It is lamb.  With cumin.
Son: So how exactly is it prepared?
Waitress: You take the lamb... and put some cumin on it.
Son: And?
Waitress: And then you cook it.

That would make a terrific scene in a funny movie, wouldn 't it?
But I'm trying to prove a point here. I want to show what real life dialog is like. We don't speak in long, expressive sentences. One of the mistakes that new writers make (and some old writers too) is making the dialog unrealistically eloquent. In the real world we break apart sentences, interrupt, stop to think. Of course we can't make speech exactly true to life... or it would be full of fillers like "like" and "y-know", but it should give the impression of real life.

Another pointer that this dialog illustrates is: make sure we know who is talking. Too often, especially in opening chapters, we have characters chatting away madly and we really don't know who we are listening to. (or should that be to whom we are listening?)

In this dialog the waitress has a distinctive voice and also an Indian accent, but I can only hint at that by the way she breaks up her sentences, but you get a good impression of her from these few lines of speech. So close your eyes. Have someone read dialog out loud and see if you get a feel for each person speaking. Also notice from that small speech how conversation flows back and forth, like a tennis match. One person does not hold the stage for long speeches.

I set my mysteries in the past and dialog is a great tool to take us back to a place and time. My characters really do express themselves in long, eloquent sentences. People in those days had more time and much bigger vocabularies. I base Molly Murphy's speech on that of my great aunts who read extensively and didn't hesitate to use big words in their every day speech (they were, after all, from a generation who gave us words like Perambulator for a baby buggy and Omnibus for that big red thing.) Also they considered words like damn and hell swearing. A man would apologize if he used such words in a lady's presence.

I don't know how we got from Asian fusion to Edwardian novels If anyone has tried good Chinese/Indian fusion, do let me know.
But a last word of warning... if a restaurant is called anything like Chopsticks and Chapattis, run away as fast as you can.