RHYS BOWEN: Today's post was all ready to go. It was on the places I was going to visit on my upcoming trip to England and France this week. Unfortunately that's not going to happen. John had a medical emergency a couple of days ago and has come home from hospital too weak to travel. Obviously I am not going to leave him, so the trip is no more.
So this is a last minute post.
Laura’s post yesterday highlights not only the bravery of young women during both World Wars but the cavalier and unfair way they were treated. The nightingales were provided with no parachute because they were expected to stay with the wounded if the plane crashed? Oh, right.
I just read an article about the Hello Girls. These were American girls who signed on to be telephone operators the first world war and were posted to the trenches with the soldiers. There they not only relayed messages from the front to the generals but sometimes had to translate those messages from French to English or visa versa. And after the war they were not considered proper army and thus given no veterans benefits, no GI bill.
The same was true of the women in WW2 who ferried planes from the factories where they were made to the various air force bases. Other young women flew crashed or damaged planes to bases to be repaired. They were not considered part of the military. If the plane crashed the girl’s family had to pay to have her body shipped home. After years of fighting for their rights some eventually did get a pension and military honors but most by then had died.
The way women were overlooked and ignored was one of the reasons I have written about several of them in my novels. (The Paris Assignment was the most recent of these). I don't think men can understand that we women have to fight to be recognized on every rung of that ladder. My daughter's best friend in college became an OB/GYN. When she came into the operating room the anesthetist looked up and said "Oh good, you're here." Cheryl smiled until he said, "Now you can run and get me some coffee." He had taken for granted that she was lesser, there to serve.
When I was in the BBC drama department I once had some producer make the same mistake. I told him quite firmly that my job was to run a studio and not get coffee and if he wanted his microphones to work and his actors to be heard he'd bloody well better be nice to me. (I've never been the shrinking violet type).
What examples do you have of having to fight for rights or being overlooked? (Perhaps with a woman president things might start to change???)