Friday, August 4, 2023

FOR ONE PERSON



HANK PHILLIPPI RYAN: Okay, I’m not saying a word. Just read this.

Well, okay, I will. Just to say: Nina Simon’s terrific debut novel, MOTHER-DAUGHTER MURDER NIGHT, comes out September 5. And if you ask her, as people always ask authors: where did the idea come from? She has an answer you have never heard before.


FOR ONE PERSON

By Nina Simon

Imagine writing a book for one person. Not in a metaphorical, “picture your ideal reader” sense. But for real. You create a whole novel, a whole world, just for them.

Who would be worthy of all that work on your part?
Who might receive your story with love?

Who would you do this for?

 


For me, these questions are not rhetorical. I wrote my debut novel, MOTHER-DAUGHTER MURDER NIGHT, for just one person: my mother. I wrote it to entertain, comfort, and distract her, and myself, while she underwent stage 4 cancer treatment in 2020 and 2021.


When my mom got diagnosed, I changed my life to be with her. I quit my job and moved in part-time, driving her to chemotherapy, meeting with doctors, and trying to get her to eat. It worked and it didn’t. We were together, but we were scared. Disease hijacked our conversations, our emotions, even our dreams. We needed an escape, something fun, something that wasn’t cancer.

So I decided to write a murder mystery.

This made even less sense than you might imagine. I had never written fiction before, let alone a novel. I knew nothing about inventing characters and plots. But I knew my mom and I both loved murder mysteries. I knew I enjoyed writing. And I knew we needed a new shared obsession, one that didn't involve protein shakes. So we started to dream up the story that would become Mother-Daughter Murder Night.

The dream enveloped us. We drew flagrant inspiration from our own lives, modeling the main characters after ourselves while cranking up the conflict and body count. We’d spend hours in her hot tub (when she got cancer, we splurged and got a hot tub) inventing victims, suspects, and motives. We read how-to books about craft and twists. We even asked a particularly patient doctor for tips on getting away with murder.

Once the world of the story felt real, I started to write it. I tried to make every scene one that would make my mom smile. She’d sleep through the mornings while I sat on her bed, writing. When she woke, I'd hand her a cup of tea and a draft chapter to read. And then we’d talk. We kept going like that--me writing, her reading, stacks of marked-up drafts accumulating--for weeks.

My mom was both the best and worst first reader. She was unflaggingly enthusiastic, and she was always willing to read another draft. She was a terrific research buddy, but when it came to critical feedback, her scope was limited. She focused on typos, terrible outfits, and most of all, how the main character, Lana Rubicon, was portrayed. She’d say, “people are going to think I’m a b**** if this stays in!” I’d assure her that readers were going to love Lana, flaws and all.

The cancer didn’t go away, but it was put in its place. We had something new to fixate on, something that gave us pleasure and hope. We believed in the dream of the book. At night, I’d tell myself: she’s going to live to see it finished. And later: she’s going to live to see it published. When I’d call her with good news—that I’d signed with an agent, that we got a book deal—she’d say, “now this is something to live for!”

I can’t describe in words how good that felt.

But I can tell you that I’ve been holding my breath, hoping it would be true.

We’ve been very, very lucky. My mom is stronger now, and we are both excited to share Mother-Daughter Murder Night with readers all over the world. But I wrote it for her. I wrote it to keep us whole. And if I had to choose between the intimate process of writing it and the public gift of sharing it, I know what I’d choose: to sit with her in bed, marking up pages and scheming about murder. I’d choose that every time.

 

If you were going to write a book for just one person, who would it be?

 

HANK: Told you.  I cannot even answer this without crying, so you guys answer.

And do not miss this book!




MOTHER-DAUGHTER MURDER NIGHT

High-powered businesswoman Lana Rubicon has a lot to be proud of: her keen intelligence, impeccable taste, and the L.A. real estate empire she’s built. But when she finds herself trapped 300 miles north of the city, convalescing in a sleepy coastal town with her estranged adult daughter Beth and teenage granddaughter Jack, Lana is stuck hoping that boredom won’t kill her before the cancer does. When Jack stumbles upon a dead body while kayaking near their bungalow and quickly becomes a suspect in the homicide investigation, the Rubicon women are thrown into chaos. Beth thinks Lana should focus on recovery, but Lana has a better idea. She’ll pull on her wig, find the true murderer, protect her family, and prove she still has power.

 

With Jack and Beth's help, Lana uncovers a web of lies, family vendettas, and land disputes lurking beneath the surface of a community populated by folksy conservationists and wealthy ranchers. But as their amateur snooping advances into ever-more dangerous territory, the headstrong Rubicon women must learn to do the one thing they've always resisted: depend on each other.


Coming Sept. 5 from William Morrow.

 

 


Nina Simon has worn many hats: NASA engineer, slam poet, mystery game designer, exhibit developer, museum director, global nonprofit founder. Most of her career has been spent in museums and cultural centers, and she has been described as a “museum visionary” by Smithsonian Magazine for her community-based approach to design. She is an Ashoka fellow and the founder of OF/BY/FOR ALL, a global nonprofit that creates digital tools to help civic and cultural organizations become more inclusive, relevant, and sustainable. 

 

Alongside her work engaging communities, Nina is an in-demand writer and speaker about community participation in museums, libraries, parks, and theaters. She has sold over 40,000 copies of her self-published books The Participatory Museum (2010) and The Art of Relevance (2016), and for thirteen years, she ran the top blog in the museum industry, Museum 2.0. She has over 25,000 Twitter followers, and she has shared her work as a keynote speaker at over 300 conferences in North America, South America, Europe, and Asia, including several state and national library conferences. Her work has been featured in the Wall Street Journal, NPR, the New York Times, and on the TEDx stage.

Born and raised in Los Angeles, Nina now lives in an off- grid community in the Santa Cruz mountains with her husband and daughter. She loves outdoor sports and adventures.

69 comments:

  1. Wow . . . I don’t even have words [or maybe it’s just that I’m not certain I have the right words] . . . .

    Nina, it is wonderful that your mom is stronger/better . . . that is truly the best news. I’m looking forward to reading this story that you and your mom are sharing with readers.

    If I were going to write a book for just one person, it would be for my twin sister, Jean . . . .

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    1. Hank Phillippi RyanAugust 4, 2023 at 9:10 AM

      That is such a wonderful thought, darling Joan..

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    2. Joan, I love the idea of a twin story - I could see it going in sweet or sinister directions!
      And thank you so much for your kind words 💛

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    3. Definitely plan to read this book. Sounds excellent. My first thought about who I would write a book for was my late twin sister. I supplied her with mysteries all during her ovarian cancer treatment. (Ultimately unsuccessful.) In doing so, I discovered our reading tastes in mysteries were very, very different. I could not have written a book she would have enjoyed.

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  2. I'm so glad your mom is healing, Nina. 🩵 Your book sounds like an absolute must read for me! I seriously love the story of the relationship you and your mom have, and your unique response to her illness. What a loving thing to do.

    My parents have both been gone a long time, but I think of them almost every day. I owe them a tremendous debt of gratitude, and if I were to write a book, it'd definitely be dedicated to them.

    On a side note, my husband and I lived in the Santa Cruz Mountains, in a conservation cooperative, for 32 years, and I know how fabulous it is there. I'm glad you have such a serene setting in which to live and write. ~Lynda

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    1. Hank Phillippi RyanAugust 4, 2023 at 9:10 AM

      She has such a terrific story, right?

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    2. Lynda, what a wild coincidence! I live in a small off-grid community up above the Mystery Spot (and have done so for 17 years). It's such a special place.

      I hope you enjoy the book. And I know whatever you write will be a blessing to your parents. 💛

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  3. This sounds absolutely delightful. And the story behind it? Wow. Congrats on your first novel.

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    1. Hank Phillippi RyanAugust 4, 2023 at 9:11 AM

      Wow is right!

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    2. Thank you Mark! As my mom likes to say, "finally SOMETHING good comes from cancer..."

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  4. I have tears in my eyes. This is an awesome tribute to your mom. I'm also glad she is doing okay. If I was to write a novel, it would also be for my mom who is no longer here.

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    1. Hank Phillippi RyanAugust 4, 2023 at 9:11 AM

      I know you could do it, Dru! But we rely on you as a reader and reviewer!

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    2. Thank you Dru for your kind words! I loved listening to your panel at LCC and am so amazed by your work and passion for the crime fiction community 💛

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  5. Well, that made me cry. I am lying here awake because I keep thinking I hear my daughter’s ringtone in the other room. Although my phone is by the bed. At 6:00 I will text her and ask if she’s okay.
    43 years ago my mother had cancer. I spent a year commuting between NJ and MO with my cats. I cooked for her and we watched mindless tv. But she wouldn’t talk about the cancer or her impending death. So I would write for my mother and talk about the things I couldn’t say back then.

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    1. Hank Phillippi RyanAugust 4, 2023 at 9:12 AM

      Awwwww that is such a touching and lovely thought!

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    2. Yes, that is so important. We definitely did some mindless TV watching as well (Monk and Columbo are research, right?)...

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  6. Congrats on your first novel. If I could write a book for just one person it would have been for my Mom. I would read to her when she came home from the hospital and put on home hospice care and play her favorite country songs. She loved "Country Roads" by John Denver. She has been gone now for 12 years of stomach cancer and I miss her every day.

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    1. Hank Phillippi RyanAugust 4, 2023 at 9:13 AM

      That is such a perfect song… And sweet memory for you that’s still keeps you together. Xxxx

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    2. Sending you love. May your mother's memory be a blessing. 💛

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  7. Way to go, Nina! What an incredible thing to share with your mom, and how wonderful she's alive to share its publication with you.

    My mom was a very sweet person, and she taught me by example to love reading mysteries on the gentler end of the scale, which is one reason that's what I write. But she could also be critical, and I doubt it would go well to write a book for her.

    If I were to write a book for and with one person, it would be my dad. He died at age 63, way before I dreamed of being a novelist, but he was a in inveterate writer of long, witty (typed) letters, and he had a wide-ranging knowledge of history and a wicked sense of humor, plus a huge unjudgmental heart full of love.

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    1. Hank Phillippi RyanAugust 4, 2023 at 9:14 AM

      They both gave you such perfect gifts!

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  8. Absolutely bowled over by this story. I'm so glad your mom is better and that the book is being published. Just wonderful.

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  9. Nina, your murder mystery sounds amazing but its creation story is every bit as wonderful. That's why the JRW community is crying in their coffee this morning. It's good to know that your mom is getting stronger.

    I am also in awe of your biography and the many, many different things that you have done. It is no wonder that you, with your mom's critical advice, were able to create a mystery novel that is full of intrigue and heart.

    I cannot zero in on one person whom I would write a book for without immediately thinking, "No." A romance for my husband, a picture book for my grandson, a fantasy for my son...not happening. But I will read your book.

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    1. Thank you so much for your kind words, Judy. It's the warmth of this community that made me want to share this.

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  10. NINA: Congratulations on your first novel and thanks for sharing the story of how/why you wrote it. I'm glad that your mom is stronger now and here to see your book being launched for many others to read.

    If I would write a book, it would also be for my mom. She's been gone for 20 years, and I miss her all the time.

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    1. Hank Phillippi RyanAugust 4, 2023 at 9:15 AM

      Isn’t it incredibly inspirational?

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    2. Thank you, Grace. My your mother's memory be a blessing. 💛

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  11. Welcome Nina, that is an amazing story! I agree with Judy, your bio is astonishing. We are lucky to have you on the blog this morning and wish you the best with this book, and for your mom, continued health.

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  12. Hurray for your mom! Hurray for your book! I would most like to write a book for my parents. Next in line would be my children. Perhaps your next book will be for your daughter.

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    1. Hank Phillippi RyanAugust 4, 2023 at 9:16 AM

      So many sweet possibilities, I agree!

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    2. My daughter is the sweetest little hype woman. She loves showing the galleys to people and telling them the story behind the book and her own role as my research buddy. We'd go out paddleboarding on Elkhorn Slough, her perched on the front of my board. She was seven at the time. She'd point at derelict shacks and say, "you should kill someone there, mom!"
      I can only imagine the therapy bills when she's older...

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    3. I love that! Luckily no one could hear her on the paddle board!!

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    4. Love it, Nina!

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  13. What a wonderful book-birthing story, Nina. Congratulations to you and your mum!

    Over the past sixteen or so months, I have been encouraging my 94-almost-95-year-old mother to write the story of how she met my dad in post-WWII London. It is now ready for printing and distributing to family and friends -- and it's exciting! It was a lot of fun to be part of the process with her. And I would do it again in a heartbeat if she were willing to tell us another story from her life...

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    1. Hank Phillippi RyanAugust 4, 2023 at 9:16 AM

      That is so exciting! I hope you will come tell us about it on the blog!

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    3. Amanda, what a beautiful project and story! I love how it brought you together and I imagine it unearthed some stories that were new to you as well.

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  14. Nina, what a moving testimony ! What you did for your mom and no doubt for yourself, going hand in hand through this difficult illness is very creative.
    I’m glad to hear that your mom is better and able to share the result of this work of love.
    I’m certainly eager to read Mother-Daughter Murder Night
    Wishing you the best for the years to come
    Danielle

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    1. Hank Phillippi RyanAugust 4, 2023 at 9:16 AM

      It is such a show of strength, isn’t it?

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  15. congratulations on your latest publication! And what a story you tell.
    I'll be truthful: I wrote my debut for me, to prove that I could do it. From now on, I'll write in memory of my parents and in celebration of my husband and three children.

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    1. Hank Phillippi RyanAugust 4, 2023 at 9:17 AM

      And that is a perfectly perfect reason! :-)

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  16. Kudos to you and your mom. I love that grace under pressure means you two writing a murder mystery! I can't imagine writing a book so no idea who it would be for.

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    1. Hank Phillippi RyanAugust 4, 2023 at 9:17 AM

      You know, that’s so right! Grace under pressure, and exactly what Ann Garvin was talking about earlier this week!

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  17. Hank Phillippi RyanAugust 4, 2023 at 9:18 AM

    Congratulations, Nina! Again, we are so overjoyed to have you here today. Can you talk a little bit about living in an off grid community? What does that really mean?

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    1. Thank you for the opportunity, Hank!

      Basically, I live in a 1970s summer camp: 40 acres in the redwoods, with 7 cabins housing 15 people. We range from 2 to 55 in age. Every family has its own little cabin, but we share garden space, chickens, a zip line, a pizza oven, and lots of trails through the woods.

      The off-grid part means that we're not attached to the electrical grid or other city services. We generate all our own electricity from solar power. We get our water from a well. We compost all our own waste and have a grey water system (no septic nor sewer). The one concession to "normal" life is a high-speed internet connection. We literally hand-dug the trenches for Comcast to lay the cables years ago.

      It sounds unusual, but it's not a sacrifice or hardship for us--we moved here from downtown Washington DC because it was our dream. And seventeen years later, we're still loving it.

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  18. Nina, you are a powerhouse! Your story touched my heart this morning--no tears, but very happy that your mom is thriving and so is your book! My mom, for sure, is still reading over my shoulder as I write, still watching as I quilt, as I play in my flowerbeds. She inspired most of what brings me joy in my life.

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    1. Hank Phillippi RyanAugust 4, 2023 at 12:27 PM

      Oh, that is so lovely, Flora!

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    2. So beautiful, Flora. Your mom is always with you. I can feel it through the computer screen. 💛

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  19. Hard to even comment without tears. My daughter and I just released our second mystery in our series. We had written or edited number of nonfiction books together before, but this writing is our hot tub in spite of of geographical distance, and a series of losses breaking both of our hearts. I will be preordering.

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    1. Maren, I love the image of your distance hot tub partnership. What a beautiful collaboration. I'd love to hear more about your series!

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    2. Hank Phillippi RyanAugust 4, 2023 at 12:28 PM

      Call hot tub partnership! Love that !

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  20. I don't think I've ever read a "story behind the book" that has made me want to buy the book IMMEDIATELY IF NOT SOONER like this story. It brought tears to my eyes and had me saying "Count me absolutely in" at the first paragraph.

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    1. Oh Jessica, thank you so much. Bookshop Santa Cruz is offering signed preorders if you want one :) https://www.bookshopsantacruz.com/mother-daughter-murder-night

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  21. May I 'fudge' my answer Nina? I would write my book for Maitreya, the laughing Buddha, the Buddha yet to come. Like others, I am so drawn to your story. I am the mother, and my daughter Amy are paralleling your experience, with one difference. She is currently on her path dealing with Stage 4 Throat Cancer. I am so grateful whenever I encounter news of folks who are in the recovery stages of this disease. Yesterday at the Cancer Center I walked by the Victory Gong, and thought "one day kiddo, it will be your turn to sound your happiness. Why Maitreya, others might ask? Well this bodhisattva also symbolizes hope for a better future. A wish that I send to you and to all on Jungle Red Writers.

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    1. Amen, Coralee. I am sending you and your daughter so much hope and love.
      Maitreya is the name of a magical little spa here in Santa Cruz where I often go on Sunday mornings with my daughter, when it's women only. We drink tea in hot tubs and lie on the grass and read books together and talk to other mommas and grandmas and girls. I'll be thinking of you and Amy the next time I am there. 💛

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  22. I'm reading MOTHER-DAUGHTER MURDER NIGHT right now, and let me tell you all it is the bomb-diggity. There are two sets of mothers and daughters here; three generations, and boy can I see myself in Beth, trying to juggle both a beloved button pushing mother and a teenage daughter who is, well, a teenager.

    I know Nina has gotten a lot of well-deserved advanced praise for this book, and I'm going to add my voice to the crowd. This is definitely the first fall read you're going to want to dive into after Labor Day!

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    1. Aw THANK YOU Julia! I'm such a fan and your words mean so much to me.
      It's funny; I thought a lot while writing about which Rubicon woman I identify with most. I'm also a sandwicher by life stage, but I feel like I'm more of a Lana and a Jack personality-wise. A lot of my impetus for writing this was to explore what it means to become a Beth after decades of identifying in a more independent way.

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  23. Nina, I can’t wait to read your book! If I were to write a book for one person, it would be for my mom. She died twenty-five years ago, but is still very much alive in my mind. The book would have a lot of humor in it. She was a person who could find the humor in just about anything! People outside of the family knew her as a sweet, lovely lady. She was all of those things, but she also had a zany, silly sense of humor, and we spent many hours laughing

    DebRo

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    1. I love it! What a wonderful kind of mother to have. 💛

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  24. Nina, welcome to JRW! Your novel sounds intriguing!

    Who would I write the novel for? My Mom. Many people in my family are Readers and I picked up on the habit of reading naturally.

    Diana

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    1. Thank you Diana! It's such a gift to grow up in a family of readers. 💛

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  25. This sounds perfect, Alicia. I wasn't sure if I would pursue publication either--and it felt like "enough" for it to be just for me and my mom. I highly recommend checking out the section very late in Anne Lamott's book Bird by Bird where she talks about the joy of writing a book for just one person. It was an inspiration to me.

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  26. Wow, Nina, Hank was right! I had to wipe away the tears. What a wonderful story and I'm so glad that your mom is doing well. I'll be pre-ordering Mother Daughter Murder Night!!

    I wrote my first book in part to prove that I could, but also for my dad, who was incredibly proud of me and was my biggest cheerleader and booster.

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  27. What a story! Can't wait for September

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