LUCY BURDETTE: Today’s guest has been one of my writers group friends for years (many!) I know you’ll enjoy the fourth book in her Melanie Bass mystery series, Ruff’d Up. Take it away Chris!
CHRISTINE FALCONE: Thank you Lucy and Reds for inviting me back.
Some writers do elaborate biographies for each of their characters where they know what kind of childhood they had, where they went to college, if they went to college, who their first boyfriend or girlfriend was, and what they eat for breakfast each morning. I am not one of those writers. This came into play in book four in the series when one of my long- time writing group partners (thank you Lucy!) asked “What about Melanie’s family? We don’t really know anything about them.” She was right. I had briefly mentioned a cousin in book two, but nothing about her nuclear family. I decided Melanie’s parents were no longer alive, but she has an older sister, Meridith who became a large part of Melanie’s story in RUFF’D UP.
Meridith is a bit overbearing at times, and the dynamic between her and Melanie shed light on parts of Melanie’s character I had never explored before. Those of us who have siblings know that they know exactly how to press our buttons (and we, theirs!) Your sibs know all about your childhood, your less perfect moments as well as your shining achievements. And they don’t let you forget them, especially the ones you would most like to. Meridith is the older sister; I was the eldest of eight, so I used that experience in developing some of the hurt and long-buried resentments both Melanie and Meridith felt toward each other.
Another thing I thought about as I wrote the interactions between the sisters was how differently they remembered aspects of their childhood. I know in talking to my own siblings I sometimes wonder if we are talking about the same events and occurrences.I found I really enjoyed writing the scenes between the sisters, and in spite of being the eldest in growing up I had feelings both sisters felt.
If you have siblings, do you find that you have different memories of childhood occurrences than they do? Do you agree with those birth order profiles that you find in magazines and online?
RUFF’D Up is the fourth book in Christine Falcone’s Melanie Bass Mystery series. Her short stories have appeared in the past in Imagine, Lancom Review, and Deadfall: Crime stories by New England Writers. Prior to her retirement she worked for nearly forty years as an RN in a Neonatal Intensive Care Unit. She lives on the Connecticut Shoreline with her family and her dog Toby who is not nearly as well behaved as Bruno, the beloved canine in her mystery series.About the book: As she looks forward to the return of warm summer days in her native Connecticut, visiting nurse Melanie Bass has more than difficult patients to contend with. She is haunted by guilt over a home invasion she feels she could have prevented, struggles to reconnect with her difficult -and until now distant- older sister, and faces complications in her personal life when an attractive new veterinarian seems to have designs on Melanie’s boyfriend. Just when she thinks things can’t get any worse, there is another brutal attack – this time on someone close to her. As the stakes mount Melanie struggles to deal with her complicated personal life and find and stop those threatening the ones she loves before she is the next victim.
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It will be exciting to meet Melanie's sister, Christine . . . I'm looking forward to reading "Ruff'd Up" . . . .
ReplyDeleteI'm probably not the person to ask about those birth order things since my sister and I are twins and our sister and brother are much younger. Jean and I don't have different memories, but, again, I think that might be the twin thing . . . .
Hi Joan -You may be right that since you and your sister are twins you remember things the same way. Also, if your other siblings are much younger you may not have had the same experiences. I am fourteen years older than my youngest brother and wasn't there for some of the things that happened after I went away to school.
DeleteThat was me, Christine, Joan - sorry
DeleteWelcome to jungle reds. I’m an only child,
ReplyDeleteThank You! I love this blog and am so happy to have been invited to do a guest blog!
DeleteWow, Christine! I didn't know that you are the oldest of eight. You must have some great stories. My dad was the oldest of six and his family stories were the best!
ReplyDeleteCongratulations on your new book. I look forward to catching up in the Melanie Bass series.
Hi Judy! Yes, I do have many, many stories about growing up with so many siblings. Of course, as I said, we don't always agree on what REALLY happened! (I am sure I tell the true version, though!) I hope you enjoy RUFF'D UP.
DeleteCongratulations on the new book, Christine! And bless you for being a NICU nurse all those years. The ones that cared for our micro-preemie Ida Rose for three months were amazing. (She's now totally thriving at 2 1/2 years.)
ReplyDeleteI'm third of four sibs and the last of three girls, so our memories definitely differ, but we're each less than two years apart from the nearest, so it wasn't a wide spread of ages. I'm poking into the backgrounds of a set of characters for a new series right now, and I'm thinking about their families a lot!
The age difference is a great point, Edith. In my mother's family of nine, there was a spread of 20 years between the oldest and youngest, and in other, larger families I knew growing up, the poor moms kept having babies even longer, nearly a generation's difference between the first and last kids. Your cultural memories with your siblings are much more similar.
DeleteThank You Edith! I always get great joy when I run into the parent of a former patient and see how wonderfully their child is doing now. I actually meet grown former patients now too!
DeleteFamilies are a great source of alliance and tension in stories, and fun to write about. Good luck with your next series, I will be looking forward to reading it!
Karen there is 14 years between my youngest brother and me, and many of my younger siblings exploits I only know by hearing about them as I left for nursing school when my brother was only 4.
DeleteYes, my siblings and I are discovering more and more as we age that our childhood memories of things differ. I wish our parents were still with us to “referee” the disagreements.
ReplyDeleteHa Ha Brenda- I know what you mean about your parents refereeing your disagreements. I know they would have their own version of what happened too. (Or at least what they THINK happened!)
DeleteAt my mother's funeral, my youngest sister (I'm the oldest of three) described a childhood very different from the one I remember. My middle sister has a distinctly different memory from both of us. It almost feels like as the oldest I had the more realistic view while they were wearing rose-colored glasses. I'd say birth order definitely plays a role in your childhood memories. -- Victoria
ReplyDeleteI agree. I also think that we are often raised by different parents - I mean that our parents parenting sometimes changes with time and experience. An example of this is the argument "You never let ME get away with that!"
DeleteLooking forward to reading your latest book, Christine! I am the oldest of three siblings and the only girl. For decades I've been the historian of the family, with the help of my parents' memories, and the many photos and home movies. Yes, my brothers sometimes had slightly different versions of what happened in our lives, if they remembered certain events at all.
ReplyDeleteYes Lynn, I agree. Ithink it is the girls who end up being the history keepers. Though I have to say my brothers all have stories to tell - usually about each other!
DeleteBig families have a different dynamic altogether, don't they? I am the oldest of four, but had friends smack in the middle of huge Catholic families, as many as 16 kids under one roof. How is it possible that we, as only children for a time, have the same experiences as the siblings lost in the fray, or the last one at home, almost an only child? It just isn't. I always said I was the practice child, where my parents made the most mistakes. My much younger brother barely remembers our real dad, and spent a relatively charmed adolescence with our stepdad and one stepbrother. His memories of our briefly shared childhood are sketchy, at best.
ReplyDeleteThe most interesting family dynamic to me is our different relationships to our mom, who is 96. She is still fairly sharp, but she and I also have vastly different memories of my/our growing up years.
Christine, is Melanie a visiting nurse who stays in her town, as opposed to a traveling nurse? Does that mean she has a set of patients she sees every week or more often? I can't think of another series with such a protagonist, what a great idea. My grandmother read every book that featured a nurse, and she would have loved a crime-solving one! Adding this to my list.
Karen when we were growing up we had two parents and eight children and three bedrooms - one of my brothers says our sense of humor came from the fact we were like clowns coming out of the little clown car!
DeleteYes, Melanie works for an agency that does homecare in her area and I love writing about the patients she sees that have become part of the series. traveling nurses, who go all over the country were not as much as a "thing" when I went to school but I think is such a great opportunity for young nurses today- though I have worked with a few that had families who went with them.
My oldest daughter--who is 17 years older than my youngest, by the way--is a nurse who provides home healthcare, but virtually. And her best friend has managed or owned a traveling nurse agency for the last 18 or more years. That branch of the profession has come a long way since I had an insurance client, a traveling nurse, who needed health care coverage in the late 1980's.
DeleteWelcome Christine! Just last Saturday, we were having a belated celebration for our birthday. My twin and I are the oldest (Margaret is THE oldest by a minute) and our younger sister Kit came along 4 1/2 years later. My brother in law knew very well that M and I had been John Denver fanatics in high school, but hadn't known that Kit also was a big fan. At this recent party, Kit told the story of how we had managed to go to our first JD concert. Her 12th birthday was coming up, and we apparently told her in no uncertain terms that she needed to ask mom and dad for tickets to the John Denver concert for her birthday. Margaret and I remember the concert very well, but don't remember using our concerted big sister bully-ness to demand that she ask for concert tickets. Siblings definitely remember different past events.
ReplyDeleteGillian I have always been a HUGE John Denver fan! I got to go to three of his concerts and they were fantastic! I bet your sister is glad now that you "encouraged" her to go to that concert for her birthday!
DeleteCongratulations on the new book! This series is new to me, but it sounds right up my alley—will zip over and check it out. But first, I’m curious—have any of your siblings read it and felt like, hey I know where you got that?
ReplyDeleteYes, at least one sister and sister-in-law have read my books. However in this book I address some of the accusations they always had for me "Miss goodie two shoes, Of Course you got an A, blah blah blah." So I had to have Melanie accuse her older sister of similar things. I am a bit anxious about what they will think this time. gulp.
DeleteMay they read it and be kinder than you remember yourself! (Signed, Also a Reformed Goody Two-shoes)
DeleteCongratulations on the new book! I am the youngest of four siblings, but those three were close together in age then I came along 11 years later. So of course my memories are quite different from theirs. My husband, though, is from one of those large Catholic families Karen referenced. He is the oldest of eight kids. There were seven children in eight years and a gap of five years before the final child. So again, of course, number eight has different memories. But among the first seven there are differences, too. Child number four was a very challenging child, and my husband swears that he and numbers two and three have a set of happy shared memories that are not shared by the younger ones. When number four's issues flared up, it changed the family dynamics completely. I am pleased to say that all eight are reasonably close now, but that was many years of adulthood in the forming.
ReplyDeleteSusan in RUFF'D UP there is a big age gap between Melanie and her sister, and Melanie remembers Meridith as a sort of second mother to her when she was younger. Did you find this with any of your siblings?
DeleteCongratulations on your new book Christine !
ReplyDeleteI’m looking forward to learn how Melanie overcome all her struggles.
I’m the eldest with three brothers. We certainly have different memories of childhood occurrences.
Yes, I especially think sisters remember things a bit differently than their brothers. I could claim it has to do with how observant most girls are.
DeleteWelcome Christine! I am the oldest child—and I have to admit, a textbook case. :-)
ReplyDeleteThanks Hank! I know my siblings all claim I am the textbook eldest also!
DeleteTextbook eldest, too!
DeleteFunnily enough Chris, I never would have pegged you as the oldest. I'm much bossier than you and I'm #2 LOL
DeleteCongratulations on your new novel, Christine! I look forward to reading your novel.
ReplyDeleteThank You Diana. I hope you enjoy it.
DeleteI’m the oldest of five. Despite being close in age (seven and a half years between me and the youngest) our childhood family memories are very different on certain topics. I remember when Mom came home from the hospital with each of my newborn siblings, and the others don’t really have those memories. Our youngest sister and our only brother (the middle child) passed away in recent years. Our memories of them, and our grieving processes were so different from each other. I knew each of them longer, but the ones closest in age to the deceased sibling had different sorts of memories of them. My sister who is closest in age to me, and I, were very close growing up, and considered ourselves to be far more mature than the three youngest, whom we always referred to as “the little kids”. It makes me laugh now to think of the childish things that we older kids did, thinking we were mature!
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Christine, I plan to look for your books!
Deb I am sorry about the loss of your brother and sister. It is hard when even though you are grown and have separate lives now, you still somehow think of yourselves as a unit and feel when a piece is now missing.
DeleteIt's true what you say about the "older kids" thinking of themselves as more mature than the younger ones. Even though we were the two oldest, I remember brother being so proud when he started high school and I was a junior and I reminded him he just "a grubby little freshman" Our mother never let me forget how hurt he was. :(
Congratulations on the new book, Christine! I love the idea of a visiting nurse as a protagonist.
ReplyDeleteMy brother was ten years older than me and he was absolutely the textbook eldest child--as I was pretty much textbook youngest. And we certainly had different memories of our childhoods. I've always loved reading about big families, maybe because I grew up more or less like an only.
Thank you! I always wanted to be a nurse, and our mother knew that and was very squeamish herself so when a brother ( it was almost always a brother) got injured ( there were many injuries!) She would say "Let Chris look at it!) This started when I was twelve. I actually liked administering first aid though.
DeleteLove that story Chris, it was meant to be!
DeleteChris, Meridith is such a great character! I love how you capture the mix of rivalry, affection, and shared history between siblings. Ruff’d Up is a fantastic book!
ReplyDeleteThanks Ang!
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