Showing posts with label Meanderings and Muses. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Meanderings and Muses. Show all posts

Friday, December 1, 2017

Kaye Barley muses...


HALLIE EPHRON: Today it gives me the greatest pleasure to welcome Kaye Barley, our dear "Oh, Kaye!" who has blogged once a month for us since... forever... and is now stepping away from that regular gig. Fortunately, she agreed to come on as a guest.

Kaye, I “met” you via your blog, Meanderings & Muses. I know you started blogging ages ago (2008??)—tell us when and what got you started?  And where is it taking you these days?


KAYE BARLEY: In a very round-about way, I think Meanderings and Muses came to be because I quit smoking.

Evelyn David, author(s) and member of The Stiletto Gang asked me to write a blog piece about that. That was during the summer of 2008 (and I am still smoke free – yay!).  Then in September of that year, JT Ellison asked me to write a piece about how theinternet might be a “Virtual Montparnasse” for the blog Murderati.

Then I attended my first Bouchercon in October.  How could I not want to write about that?  I couldn’t wait to share that experience along with some pretty awesome pictures.   Talk about Fan Girl – that was me.

All these things seemed like fun things to share in my own blog, hence Meanderings and Muses was born.  But I wanted it to be about more than my ramblings about my own life.

After floundering around for a bit and after running the idea by several author friends I decided to try out an idea just to see if it would fly, and boy did it ever. I sent out invitations to some author friends asking if they’d be willing write a piece for yet another blog - about whatever they cared to write about.  Every invitation was met with a “yes.”

In January 2009 the author spotlights were kicked off by my dear friend Pat Browning.  I was a huge fan of Pat’s work, especially her essays.  She had a way of writing that was so comfortable.  Readers felt like they were sitting down for a cup of coffee and a chat with a close friend while reading Pat’s pieces.  Perfect for the atmosphere and ambience I hoped to have at my own blog.

What started as the 2009 Meanderings and Muses Dream Team of about 12 authors – one a month – grew to two authors a week (sometimes three), every week, in 2013.
By this time, many of the contributors had participated every single year. And I was beginning to get requests from people who wanted to come play.

But it had turned into more than I had hoped and was becoming more like work than fun for me. So at the end of 2013 I thanked all the guests one final time. 

Guests being a delightful mix of bestselling authors, mid list authors, unpublished authors, regional authors, poets, publicists and publishers, bloggers, friends of the mystery community and readers who read a bit of everything.  I was even able to convince my husband to write a piece and wasn’t the least bit surprised when the number of hits kept rising and rising and rising.

Meanderings and Muses author spotlights made its mark in the mystery world.  I’m always going to be quite proud of that.  How could it not with a line-up including...
 Avery Aames Megan Abbott Patti Abbott Victoria Abbott Suzanne Adair Ellery Adams Riley Adams Michael Alatorre Tasha Alexander Lou Allin Beth Anderson Patty Anderson Susan Anderson  Donna Andrews Maggie Barbieri Donald Barley Wendy Bartlett  Cara Black Rachel Brady Peg Brantley Duffy Brown Pat Browning Brenda Buchanan Julia Buckley Robin Burcell Lucy Burdette Alafair Burke Tony Burton Sarah Byrne Bill Cameron Dana Cameron Chester Campbell Lillian Stewart Carl Cathy Lee Carper Toni McGee Causey Diane Chamberlain Joelle Charbonneau Laura Childs Jane Cleland Stacey Cochran Mark Coggins Jeff Cohen P.J. Coldren Meredith Cole Reed Farrel Coleman Alan Cook Thomas H. Cook E.J. Copperman Gary Corby Shelley Costa Cleo Coyle Elizabeth Spann Craig Bill Crider Deborah Crombie Lonnie Cruse Evelyn David Hilary Davidson Krista Davis Mark De Castrique Vicki Delany Deni Dietz Nan Dillingham Julie Dolcemaschio Alice Duncan Carola Dunn J.T. Ellison HallieEphron Linda Fairstein Nancy Peterson Farina Robert Fate Gerrie Ferris Finger Barbara Fister Jen Forbus Barbara Fradkin Shelly Fredman Leighton Gage Kate Gallison Kaye George Shane Gericke Gina Gilmore Debra Ginsberg Chris Grabenstein Andrew Grant Judith Greber Beth Groundwater Carolyn Haines Tim Hallinan Denise Hamilton R.J. Harlick Rosemary Harris Libby Fischer Hellman Sara J. Henry Sasscer Hill Beth Hoffman Judy Hogan Lesa Holstine Julie Hyzy Coco Ihle Roberta Isleib Dean James Nancy Lynn Jarvis Craig Johnson Larry Karp Toni L.P. Kelner Dana King Vicki Lane Bob Levinson N. J. Lindquist Mary Jane Maffini Victoria Maffini Morgan Mandel Margaret Maron Nancy Martin Ashley McConnell Jenn McKinlay Marilyn Meredith Jenny Milchman Celia Miles Robin Minnick Donna Moore Bobbi Munn Tim Myers Patricia Neeley-Dorsey Radine Trees Nehring Kris Neri Scott Nicholson Doris Ann Norris Karen Olson Mike Orenduff Alan Orloff Ann Parker Bronson L. “Bo” Parker Brad Parks Sandra Parshall Louise Penny Twist Phelan Dee Phelps Neil Plakcy Jonathan Quist Cornelia Read Mary Reed Gillian Roberts L.J. Roberts Chris Roerden Carolyn Rose S.J. Rozan Janet Rudolph Sandra Ruttan Hank Phillippi Ryan Karen Schinder Brandon Seidl L.J. Sellers Sarah Shaber Deborah Sharp Zoe Sharp Andi Shechter Clea Simon Joanne Campbell Slan Ben Small April Smith Sylvia Dickey Smith Alexandra Sokoloff Robin Spano Earl Staggs Kelli Stanley Patricia Stoltey Niki Strandskov Pari Noskin Taichert Marcia Talley Kathleen Taylor Pattie Tierny Elaine Viets Miranda Phillips Walker Robert Walker Kathryn Wall Mary Welk  Melinda Wells Jeri Westerson Molly Weston Shirley Wetzel Leslie Wheeler Sharon Wildwind Michael Wiley Simon Wood Nancy Means Wright Elizabeth Zelvin

Meanderings and Muses has gone through a lot of changes and now it’s become a place for me to do an occasional book squeal, share some of my photography, share a piece of poetry or art I’ve stumbled across. A place where I share stories and pictures about friends and family, and political rants. 

It’s a place I lean on and love.  And I have no idea what might show up there on any given day.

HALLIE: Whoa! That's some list!!

One of your “muses” was surely Harley. A corgi, AKA Harley Doodle Barley.  (And BTW I love the idea of that little energetic dog being named after a motorcycle.) He’s inspired you, your blog, and your writing. Tell us how.

KAYE:  Oh, Harley.  I miss that funny little dog every day of my life.  He would have taken this new kid, Annabelle, in hand and given her a good talking to.  He was a joy, a tonic, a mischievous little soul.  And he did “inspire” us to write a book with him – all about him, of course.  It sold quite well, and still picks up a new sale every now and then.

HALLIE: Tell us about Boone, your home in the North Carolina Mountains, and how it shapes your literary life.

KAYE: Boone.  Talk about a love/hate relationship!  

I adore our little house on the edge of the wilderness and I adore our neighbors.  This area of the North Carolina mountains is beautiful.  We have a small group of neighbors who are like family.  There’s nothing I enjoy much more than shopping in our little downtown area where we have some outstanding shops and galleries and a few good restaurants. 

I’m afraid, however, what I love most about it is slowing changing and disappearing.  

Developers love lopping off another mountain top to toss up another group of cheaply built houses/condos/apartments.  They’re starting to ignore their own rule about building height.  The university is taking over the sweet downtown area and housing prices are ridiculous, meaning many of the service people will be living outside of Boone and driving in to work.  One of the largest employers, Appalachian State University, doesn’t believe in raises for staff, and I could go on and on and on.  You may have seen Boone on the Rachel Maddow Show during a segment of voter suppression. 

North Carolina, in general, has been a challenge in recent years. It shapes my literary life in that I always find things here to photograph, to contemplate, and to write about.  It’s a dichotomy I’m constantly exploring.


HALLIE: Please, share with us your wish for the new year, and what books are on your bedside table…

KAYE: In semi-permanence on my bedside table are a couple of books by Pat Conroy including his cookbook which has some of the loveliest essays he’s written.  Also, his “My Reading Life,” and “Lowcountry Heart.”  

Additional permanent book residents include Rick Bragg’s “My Southern Journey,” and Neil Gaiman’s “The View From the Cheap Seats.”  I love essays and poetry for bedtime reading.  The books of poetry on that messy bedside table right now are Mary Oliver’s “Devotions,” Christopher Buckley’s “Star Journal,” and Ntozake Shange’s “Wild Beauty.”  The novel I’m reading is Dawn Tripp’s “Georgia: A Novel of Georgia O’Keeffe.”  Next up is Tahereh Mafi’s “Whichwood, a companion to her “Furthermore” which was pure magic.  And my oh so cherished Kindle Fire so I can have any book I might have a hankering for at any hour of the day or night.  Push a button and “POOF!” there it is.  More magic!

As far as the coming year goes, Donald has joined me as a retired person so we hope to just relax and enjoy time together.  We’re both nesters, so being at home is always nice, but we’re also looking forward to doing some traveling.  He’s agreed to go to Paris with me next September and we’ve already booked a small studio apartment on the Ile Saint-Louis for a week, followed by a train trip to Amsterdam where we have a hotel room booked for 3 nights.  Between now and then, just to make me quit talking obsessively about all things Paris, we’ll be making little day trips to Asheville and other places we enjoy that are close by, and a trip to beach is always on the agenda.
 
HALLIE: Are you working on a new book?

KAYE:  I’m working, sporadically, on two manuscripts.  One is another Whimsey novel in which I’m trying to tell Olivia’s story.  But, it feels like I’m just retelling the story of Whimsey, so I’m not happy with it.  We’ll see where it, and if, it goes.

The second is a novel which takes place in a small mountain town.  It’s a little darker.  One has to be careful not to poke at and peek under some fairly harmless looking rocks.  I’m having a whole lot of fun with this one, truth be told.  But I am a very slow writer, for which I have stopped thrashing myself.  

My favorite writing is creative non-fiction essays, so I find myself doing a lot of that, along with some short stories.

HALLIE: Kaye, we’re going to miss you as a regular contributor to Jungle Red, so I hope you’ll come back often as a guest.

KAYE: Hallie, being an Honorary Red for five plus years has been an honor.  It’s been fun and of course I’ll come back as often as allowed.  I thank Hank for the initial invitation which was a huge and fantastic surprise and I thank all the Reds for their friendship and support.  It’s a pretty amazing group of women I’ve been hanging with, I must say. 

HALLIE: Ending with a quiz for our readers, who have gotten to know Kaye over these last years. One of these is TRUE about Kaye… which one is it?

1. She danced on stage with Bruce Springsteen in Atlanta.

2. She sang on stage with Willie Nelson in Atlanta (just one short chorus of "On The Road Again").

3. She was on Atlanta TV getting a kiss from a camel.

4. She was part of the peanut gallery for the Howdy Doody Show.

5. She was on Atlanta TV helping Paula Deen make Shrimp & Grits

Sunday, March 5, 2017

"Oh, Kaye!" chats about politics and puppies


This past month has been a busy one.

Being mom to a new puppy (sometimes referred to as Princess Piranha) has kept me on my toes.

Anyone reading my Meanderings and Muses knows what I mean.  Puppy and Politics, that's what it's all about for me these days.  Who would have guessed?

Getting more and more involved in local political activities is keeping me busy - remember, "It's a marathon, not a sprint!"  There is much to do.  

One of the local events was a visit to Rep. Virginia Foxx's office.  She was not there, but her staff was expecting us and they were kind and courteous to all 180+ of us who presented individual letters addressed to Rep. Foxx.   







The other was a tea and cookies event held on Saturday.  She declined this invitation also, even though she was just down the street a couple blocks at a speaking engagement right before the event started

The tea went on as planned and was a huge success.  Rep. Foxx was represented by a photo and an empty chair.  Too bad she chose not to attend, there were excellent points made by attendees and questions that deserved answers.


I have strong feelings about all this.  I happen to think elected officials have an obligation to listen to their constituents.  To answer questions.

Silly me.



So.


Moving along to puppies . . . 



Puppy Kindergarten started this week.

Oh, laws . . .

Let me tell you about Puppy Kindergarten.

It's basically a dog obedience class except it's for puppies only.  Puppies who have about an inch long attention span and very sharp little teeth.

The woman who owns Woof Pack Pet Services is an amazing woman who teaches a variety of classes, has a puppy day care facility, a boarding facility for dogs, and another for cats.


So.  Thursday night was our first class.

Here's our pack -









An adorable mix of pups - all sweet as pie.

The class is based on "Positive Reinforcement."

I love that.


We have been to various classes for dog training in the past - and left - because we did not care for their training philosophy.

This one just seems, to us, to be just right.


So there we were with out itty bitty little fluff ball and all these bigger, but oh so sweet, dogs.  And because they're all puppies, they all have the same issues.  Short attention spans and sharp little teeth.  

Some, however, are already better trained than others.  I'd have to say Annabelle was not as well trained as some, but perhaps a little better trained than others.


But, once she got tired, she was done with learning.


She didn't care if she was being offered a T-bone steak for "down," she was not interested.


Donald is acting as "handler" since he possesses all the patience in the family.


My role is cheerleader and photographer.


That suits me just fine 'cause I get to watch all the other puppies while Don does all the work.


And I smiled and I laughed and I had the best time.


And you know, it's nice to put the rest of the world aside for an evening to watch the simple joy of puppies.







So, Dear Reds, I'm guessing many of you have your own stories about doggie obedience classes, and I'd love to hear them.





Sunday, April 3, 2016

"Oh, Kaye!" Celebrates National Poetry Month


April is National Poetry Month.



"This April marks the 20th anniversary of National Poetry Month, which was inaugurated by the Academy of American Poets in 1996. Over the years, National Poetry Month has become the largest literary celebration in the world with schools, publishers, libraries, booksellers, and poets celebrating poetry’s vital place in our culture."  Read more here - https://www.poets.org/national-poetry-month/home

For the past few years, including this year, I've tried to remember to post a poem at my Meanderings and Muses every day and have found it to be one of my favorite things to do.  

Seeking out new poems and new poets brings a little light into my life.

I spend a lot of time, like many of you, frustrated by events we seem to not have much control over.  World events, political events, even those things closer and more personal right in our own homes that seem to try to knock us down once in awhile.  And I rant about those events by writing about them at my Meanderings and Muses quite a bit.  Writing is a saving grace for me.  I know it is for a lot of us.

I try to temper those rants with some "feel good" pieces, and I think that's how the annual poetry posts came to be.


So.


In celebration of April - National Poetry Month - I'd like to share one of my favorite pieces of poetry with you -  - - -


Variation on a Theme by King David

Praise to you!
Praise to you my snappy love!

Praise you in clean socks on a Queens-bound
train; praise you
for your famous avocado
sandwiches; Praise you from Brooklyn to blasphemy!

I've called the mayor to praise you; & a third-
base coach; even
that no-neck accountant
who doesn't have the decency to nod hello
has agreed to praise you!

Praise you with bongos and fine fancy
tea; praise you
with rhumba, tango & marmalade; praise
you with your knickers at your knees!

I praise you on Flag Day, & on whichever equinox
allows for the balancing of eggs;
I praise you with eggs!
Brown ones & jumbo & Faberge Tiffany blue!

On the white of your wrist I praise you;
on the vacuumed throw rug; I praise you full-
page on Sunday! With faxes
& foxgloves & brushed cotton sheets;
with sky-write & timbrel &

wink! Let every soul
in the Battery Tunnel honk
her horn to praise you! Praise you
with ripe limes & wrestling mats;
praise you tax-free with agates and tin foil
& all sparkly things!

Praise you with foggy spectacles and Wisconsin green cheese!
Praise you to the afternoon of orthopedic sneakers;
praise you from poinsettia to piccolo!
Praise you & praise you & praise you!

My love,
from Brooklyn to blasphemy I praise you!

-- L. B. Thompson


How about you, Dear Reds, is there a piece of poetry that has a special place in your heart?  One you go to at particular times for solace, or even "just 'cause?"  A favorite piece you'd care to share?