RHYS BOWEN: Since it’s Thanksgiving Day and those of us in the US are busy with turkeys and stuffing and pumpkin pies, I thought we’d have a quick convo in which we state three things we are thankful for this year:
If you are like me the year has been one of ups and downs, of worries and uncertainties. But also of special moments of joy and contentment. So I wlil start:
I am thankful for:
1: Is obviously my family. They are the best. My kids and grandkids are loving, caring, funny and make my life a joy. They step in every time we call to say something in the house isn’t working properly or I need to be picked up from the airport. They gather on any excuse, sit around the table laughing. I can think of nothing more perfect than my family gathered, sharing a meal.
2. I'm grateful that John got to go to England this year, As many of you know he had a real health scare last fall and I worried he’d never be able to travel again. But we made it to England, a niece drove us around. We stayed with his sister and almost all the family came to visit. It was really special.
3. On the writing front my historical novel Mrs. Endicott’s Splendid Adventure has done very well and has really touched a nerve with many people. And I just learned that it has been named one of Audible’s best fiction titles for 2025. So that makes me very happy as the narrator was fabulous. Barrie Kreisnik. She’s the best.
Now: How about you:
LUCY BURDETTE: Great topic Rhys! It’s been a hard year so it makes sense to stop and assess what we’re thankful for. Like Rhys, I’m grateful for my husband, and the rest of my family. I wish everyone lived closer but we treasure the time we share when we get together.
I’m grateful for my interesting life as a writer, even though it sometimes feels grueling:). That means I’m so glad to have my writing pals and my reading friends including all of you! I’m grateful for books and writers too!
JENN MCKINLAY: Happy Thanksgiving, Everyone! I’m going to skip the obvious–my adored family, for which I am grateful everyday, and my dear friends, who make me laugh and keep me sane-ish, and my readers, who are so incredibly discerning and supportive and obviously brilliant and without whom I’d have no career–and stick to random gratitudes for this year. Okay, that got long, we’ll make it 1.
2. I’m grateful for K-Dramas. Both Hank, who recommended The Extraordinary Attorney Woo back in 2022, and Julia, who wrote this excellent blogpost https://www.jungleredwriters.com/2024/04/my-kdrama-krush.html last year, got me watching them and, honestly, in this endless horrible 2025 newscycle from hell, K-Dramas have become my reward for thugging through another day.
3. Being in my fifties. Despite the many horrors of this decade–menopause, loss of loved ones, knees that lock up, jowls, etc–it is also the decade where I feel free for the first time in YEARS! I’m talking free like a little kid. Now that Hub and I are freebirding, since the Hooligans have been moved out for a couple of years, I can eat cake for dinner if I want, stay up all night, blow off my chores, or take up any weird hobby that strikes my fancy. I don’t generally do any of that, but I could if I wanted to and that freedom is so delicious.
HALLIE EPHRON: Family, family, family. I have fabulous daughters and a stellar pair of grands. Add a pair of grand-cats. And sisters whom I adore. I never appreciated how special a functioning family was until recently. I’d add gratitude for Reds and our readers. I look forward to checking in every morning and see who’s up and at ‘em. And for the many writers I’ve connected with over the years through my teaching - so great to see them write and thrive.
Now I’m tearing up…
HANK PHILLIPPI RYAN I am so grateful to be able to read all of these! You all are so dear. Yes, as I get older I am grateful for every day, for health, and the stars and tulips and birds, for still being able to think and see and imagine and remember things.
(Most of the time, and if I can’t, I can eventually.)
To be able to read. And consider things. And have perspective. And know how to do some things and to get better at them. For my darling family, near and far, and watching them all grow and flourish and be nimble. And gosh, I get to be a writer. Amazing.
JULIA SPENCER-FLEMING: I’m a big fan of daily gratitude, and I agree with Hank that looking at the world around us and noticing things is one of the best practices you can do to improve your outlook on life.
So what, specifically, am I grateful for this Thanksgiving? My new grandson “Paulie” who continues to look like a tiny wise guy, but we love him just the same. Family, of course, and my friends, who have held me up with so much love and encouragement and hospitality and help this past year. I’m grateful for the wonderful pets I share my life with - yes, even the $15,000 cat.
And I’m so grateful for my readers who have stuck with me despite years of not having a new book. Now that there is one, I continue to be overwhelmed by how many people love Clare and Russ and the citizens of Millers Kill. I know there are writers who wouldn’t have a career after two lengthy gaps between publishing, and I’m so, so thankful that I do.
DEBORAH CROMBIE: Yes, as above, family! I am so grateful to be able to watch my darling granddaughter grow up. She is such a delight, funny, smart, and kind. I'm grateful for health, even with aches and pains– every time I have to fill out a medical questionnaire and get to check "no" on everything I DON'T have! Reading, absolutely, the joy of my life since childhood. How lucky are we who read??? And I am grateful not just for books but for audiobooks. After my hearing loss scare back in '24, every day I am thankful to be able to listen to a book.
And I am so thankful for this community and for my JRW sisters. What a blessing you all are.
AND WE ARE THANKFUL FOR ALL OF YOU.
HAVE A WONDERFUL THANKSGIVING, EVERYONE!












Every day I am thankful for family and friends and Church . . . wonderful daughters and delightful grandbabies [growing up much too fast] . . . the writers and readers of this blog; you make my heart smile [and, Julia, I will always love Clare and Russ] . . . health and happiness and stars and flowers and books and reading and, oh, so much more . . .
ReplyDeleteHappy Thanksgiving!
DeleteFamily, Faith, and Freedom and the good health to enjoy them all.
ReplyDeleteAnd pickleball. 🙃
Pickleball!!
DeleteHappy Thanksgiving! I'm thankful for my health, my family and my friends. I'm most thankful for this group on this blog and so glad I got to meet several in person.
ReplyDeleteDru, it was a great joy to meet you in person after learning so much about books and authors from you over the last few years.
DeleteDry it’s always a pleasure to see you virtually. .. but especially in person
DeleteI'm thankful for all of you, above and below the line - this community is special. I'm over-the-moon thankful for my darling dynamo Ida Rose, who is now talking non-stop, and for the new baby still comfy in his mama's belly for another six weeks or so - and for their parents who are happy to have me in their lives. And I'm thankful to have the job of writing stories for readers who love them, a job I am nearly always excited to do every morning.
ReplyDelete(Debs, I didn't know about the hearing loss scare - glad you are okay!)
Debs, I didn’t know about the hearing loss scare back in 2024 though I knew ? About your menieres? I live with hearing loss since age 2 and I can understand how you feel. So glad you are okay now. I am now at the same age my grandfather was when he started to lose his hearing. In his family, people start losing their hearing in their fifties.
DeleteHappy Thanksgiving, Edith!
DeleteI am grateful for food because I like turkey and stuffing. This is one of the few times a year when I am grateful someone gives me the bird.
ReplyDeleteHa ha!! Absolutely
DeleteRhys, what a wonderful column! I loved Mrs. Endicott’s Splendid Adventure!
ReplyDeleteMy #1 this year is the success of my husband’s hip replacement on Monday and, so far, his success post-op.
#2 The love and friendship of my friends . I have a core group who are “friends who are family” that are the best.
#3 The ability, so far, to enjoy my recent retirement and the travel, gardening, outdoors, and reading, reading, reading! Which also includes this wonderful JWR blog, the writers themselves, and the great community.Thank you for the books, the smiles, the laughter.
Family. A few very good friends. Creativity, my own and that of others. The natural world.
ReplyDeleteHappy Thanksgiving to my American friends !
ReplyDeleteI’m grateful for this blog and the community it created.
Grateful for family and friends.
Grateful for my health. I was very scared last week after a bad fall but , Thank God, nothing broken.
I’m so sorry you had a bad fall, Danielle. I had one a couple of months ago and it really is alarming. And glad you didn’t break anything either !
DeleteSo glad to hear you survived intact - falling is so scary
DeleteHappy Thanksgiving, everyone! Hoping you all have a lovely day!
ReplyDeleteI am grateful for family and friends. I am grateful for my husband who has been my partner in so many ways. I am grateful for the life I have and the richness of my experiences. Grateful for loving grandchildren who are so much fun to be with. I am grateful for this blog and especially grateful that I can read and listen to all the great stories that the Reds and authors I have met here write.
(Rhys, Barrie is a darling. Her mom is a longtime friend.)
(Debs, I did not know about your hearing scare. Glad you are okay.)
This community is special! ❤️
Grateful for the question narrowing it to three and how it let me think of dozens of things ... but just today I'm grateful for Gretchen the physical therapist with infectious encouragement, Sadie, newly adopted black American bulldog, pitbull, corgi mix, so emotionally frail from a terrible first year in a cage, but so willing to try, and Donald who knew enough to stay in bed until the pumpkin pie was in the oven with all its ingredients.
ReplyDeleteHonestly, I feel like my year was so full of blessings it is hard to identify the top three! But of course, I'll take a go at it:
ReplyDelete1. This has to be family -- not only my immediate family but both my family of birth and my in-laws. They bring so much richness to our lives, year in, year out.
2. Our faith and faith community, which is like a second family to us. This is where I draw strength and meaning on a day-to-day basis.
3. The combination of good health and good resources that makes it possible for us to enjoy our retirement so much. This year included travel to Florida, Japan, and Italy, which was mind-boggling (in a good way). And in between trips there's a lot of volunteer work and caring for my sister and re-learning how to do hospitality post-covid. I know this pace isn't sustainable forever, but we are really enjoying it as fully as we can while we can.
Happy Thanksgiving to all! Aren't we lucky we all found one another?
ReplyDeleteGrateful for my wonderful daughters and how loving they are, and to the electrons that allow us to communicate in group chat, despite being continents and time zones far apart from each other. Grateful for our solid roof and warm home, that provides us security and comfort. I have known from childhood never to take that for granted. And like Debs, eternally grateful for all the "No" answers on health forms! The older I get, the more grateful for such good health. And I wish the same for you all.
Off to see to the bird! May your turkey be juicy, and your pies delectable.
Happy Thanksgiving dear JRW community! I'm very grateful to be mostly healthy as I approach the end of my 60s. My daily walks and jogs bring much joy and moments of awe. I am also grateful that my son is doing well, and so grateful that Maria is in his life. I'm grateful for my church community, both English and Spanish-speaking. This terrible year has brought us closer. I'm grateful for all of you--for the books and blog posts and new-to-me authors. Julia, I finished At Midnight Comes the Cry yesterday and loved it! It was the perfect read as we prepare to "cast away the works of darkness and put on the armor of light".
ReplyDeleteHappy Thanksgiving to everyone.
ReplyDeleteTrying to figure out 3 things to be thankful for is a tough road to hoe this year. It has been a miserable year for me with losing the job I had for 26 plus years when the company closed. Being unable to find a new job. The usual health issues that come with getting older and other such indignities that life has seen fit to heap upon me since March.
But I am thankful I've had some people that have been able to help me somewhat stay afloat as best I could (it ain't easy). I'm thankful I've been able to keep writing my reviews which may seem like small thinking but it's been able to keep my mind focused on stuff other than the misery.
And I'm thankful for those I'm either friends or at least friendly with. Whether it be in person or just those I interact with regularly online, they also provide a boon in these days of me being Eeyore.
Jay, hoping and praying that 2026 is a much better year for you. Hang in there.
DeleteJay, hoping that 2026 will be a better year. I second what Karen in Ohio said above.
DeleteI join those above in sneding you prayers and good wishes. I went through a very difficult job loss in 2008 and it took a few years to rebuild my life, so I truly can relate to what you're feeling. Hang in there and know there is light at the end of the tunnel!
DeleteJay, wishing you the blessings of this day, and I think most of us have had our Eeyore years, too!
DeleteFlora, Anon again!
DeleteJay, as someone who just lived 1 1/2 years in her car, you can do and survive more than you realize. Appreciate the folks who show up just when you need something; rejoice in what you do have, instead of what you don't; and never lose sight of that fact that someone is in worse shape than you are. Last winter there were at least 10 women 70 years old living in their cars in my county and I was one of them. I cannot tell you how grateful I was that I had a car and a sleeping bag. So many folks didn't. And, oh yes, I have a multitude of health issues as well, but I'm still here and last month I found a room I could afford with a landlady who is an angel and cooking Thanksgiving dinner even as I type. She expects me to attend and eat all that I want. So I am very grateful. Look for the positives and they will be there. We find what we seek. -- Victoria
DeleteJay, hoping things look up for you soon! Virtual hugs!
DeleteWe adore you, Jay!
DeleteIt is so sweet to read all of these gratitude lists. Life is full of ups and downs (AKA really hard stuff), so it’s nice to read about the rosy parts here. I am grateful I met my husband 36 years ago and we are happy together. I am grateful for my friends, and I am grateful to get to live in Maine, close to so much nature (as I write this I am watching the deer in the backyard eating the food I put out for them earlier) — I guess I might also add that I am grateful today is the end of deer-hunting season! And YES to Jenn’s 👆discovery of the freedom that comes with being in our mid-50s! It is GREAT!
ReplyDeleteThe deer are probably thankful for that, too :-)
DeleteHappy Thanksgiving everyone! We are so grateful for each one of you! xox
ReplyDeleteHappy thanksgiving to all! Loved reading all of the comments today. We all have our ups and downs. I am grateful to be able to read. I am grateful for the jungle red writers community.
ReplyDeleteI am grateful to be here today. After my bad falls in May/ September 2022, I was not sure if I would make it to my next birthday.
I am grateful for my family and friends. I have been reading about language deprivation in deaf children and the stories made me cry. I’m grateful I can communicate with my family and friends, despite my becoming deaf at a very young age. I’m grateful for good friends.
Happy Thanksgiving to one and all! Pretty much everything I'm thankful for is listed in my reply to Jay so I won't repeat except to say, focus on the good and good will come to you and be thankful for the bumps because they stretch you to become a better you. IN ALL THINGS, GIVE THANKS. -- Victoria
ReplyDeleteHappy Thanksgiving to all, wishing you a day blessed with family, friends, and food!
ReplyDeleteI'm grateful for my family, my friends, and our pets. We're a family now lacking any little ones to snuggle up close (so glad your sons share their little ones, Edith!), so the pets provide that cheer on hard days. Also, inspire laughter and motivate physical exercise--have you ever sprinted the length of the house? "Not on the rug, not on the rug, please!" I'm grateful to be able to live surrounded by countryside--just a couple of weeks ago, six deer were having a party on my property--running from front to back, all ages! And I've seen more bald eagles this year than in all the rest of my life! And I'm grateful for the writing life in all its manifestations: this blog and community of readers and writers, the books and books and books to explore, sharing my own efforts with complete strangers!
Furry kids are wonderful, Flora, and yesterday we had a huge buck in our back yard!
DeleteCanadian here wishing all Americans a happy day today. I am grateful for the Reds writers and the Reds community here -- such a lovely point of connection across the borders and the distance. We can find each other in the pages of the worlds the writers and readers create together. Thank you.
ReplyDeleteHappy Thanksgiving to you all, Reds and Readers. I always enjoy what you have to say!
ReplyDeleteIt's not Thanksgiving here in Bern, but my husband and I will celebrate with three other US/Swiss couples and all of our adult kids with partners (no grandchildren yet for any of us) in a potluck on Saturday in one couple's home. Right now, it looks like we'll be 18 people. I'm thankful for this tradition, which has been going on since before the youngest of the "children" was born. Also grateful (1)that I live in a tiny, beautiful, wealthy, extremely stable country in the middle of Europe that I love; (2) that our son lives an hour away in Zürich, so if I start to miss him badly, I can get on a train, walk ten minutes from the Zürich train station to the university, and he'll meet me for lunch. (3) that writing my four mysteries has given me so much pleasure.
So completely lovely and inspirational to read all of these! You are all quite special.
ReplyDeleteGrateful that my two sons still like to spend time with me, and that they are handy with tools, writing advice, and cooking skills. (They will be here with side dishes when the turkey comes out of the oven.) Grateful for a handful of close friends who offer love and laughs in these fractious times. Grateful for fellow writers who have given me so much encouragement over the years. Grateful for the chances to tell them all how wonderful they are.
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