Monday, May 11, 2026

Lemons, lilacs, leather...oh, my!

JENN McKINLAY: Okay, this might seem like a weird question but what are your favorite scents? 

I ask because I was making my monthly trek to the “smelly store” as the Hub calls it (more commonly known as Bath and Body Works) and they had a whole new lineup of candles and whatnot. Joy! 


Clearly, I have a slight problem with candle accumulation.



Now I know some people are scent sensitive and others think that burning candles is toxic and I get that, I do, but I have a husband, two dogs, and five cats. Y’all, I need to smell something besides man and critter in my house!


Hub generally tags along on this errand and unsurprisingly steers me away from the vanilla cinnamon cupcake candle scents to the more gender neutral eucalyptus and spearmint, which we both like. He's also the bergamot, leather, and distilled gin guy, none of which really work for me.


If I had to pick my favorite scents, I’m going with fresh laundry, coconut, and limoncello as my mainstays with crisp apple and balsam fir as seasonal faves. 


How about you, Reds? What scents bring you joy in life or in candles?


HANK PHILLIPPI RYAN:  Oh, I love this topic! I’m very scent sensitive, and Jonathan always howls with laughter when I say… Have you been eating Doritos? And he says I’ve had ONE! How do you know?

And if something smells like red onions it makes me really unhappy.

But happy smells, oh, what a wonderful topic. For candles, I love cinnamon, and coconut.

And oh, vanilla.

For fragrance like shower gel, my faves are lemon, and coconut. And sometimes freesia , but it’s not always the same fragrance, which is confusing.

There used to be a body spray called Gloomaway, which was a gorgeous kind of sugary Lemmon, which I absolutely loved. But they don’t make it anymore.

I use fewer candles than I used to, because someone told me they can make your ceiling sooty.

But by my bed I have a vanilla candle that is fragrance enough without lighting it. 


LUCY BURDETTE: Hank, Gloomaway??? What were they thinking?? No wonder they don’t make it anymore. 

My go to is lavender. EO makes a good line of lavender products, as does my favorite Alaskan company. When we burn candles, it’s almost always balsam fir.

But I’m also very partial to the smell of good food cooking and baking! Chocolate cake in the oven? Count me in! Roast chicken, same. Spaghetti bolognese–yes!


JENN: A spaghetti bolognese candle for those of us who don't cook? Maybe you're onto something, Lucy!


HALLIE EPHRON: Jean Nate? Does anyone remember that? I’m sure I have some… somewhere. Seems like it’s citrus-y. That and fresh baked bread (but in the oven… not in a candle).


And I used to love the smell of GAIN laundry detergent. Not so much now. I no longer want my clean laundry to smell unless it’s from hanging on the line outside.


RHYS BOWEN: I like fresh citrus scents. I grew up with 4711 cologne and still like that although I rarely use it. Actually I hardly ever use scents as I’m allergic to some. But give me baking bread, campfire smoke, the scent of a pine forest and I’m happy.


DEBORAH CROMBIE: What a fun topic, Jenn! I’m super scent sensitive, so I don’t like a lot of candles, but there are some that I love. I bought a ridiculously expensive candle in Round Top this year because the smell was so divine. It’s called Tomato Season and it’s a combination of tomato leaves, cucumber, sage, and basil. That may sound weird but trust me! (And Trader Joe’s $4.99 Tomato Leaf candle is not even from the same universe…) (Tomato Season is made by a company called LAFCO if anyone is interested.) I also love a candle called Sea Pines by Mersea, which I burn every year around Christmas. And while I’m not usually crazy about vanilla-y/cookie type of scents, I have a candle called Pumpkin Bourbon that I’ve been nursing through the last few autumns. 


But my favorite scent of the moment is a bar of lavender soap made by my friend at the farmer’s market. Olive oil, goat’s milk, and lavender essential oil. I can’t wait to get in the bath every night. I’m convinced lavender reduces my stress levels.


JULIA SPENCER-FLEMING: Jenn, I’m laughing, because I call all the goodies from Bath and Bodyworks “smelly stuff.” Tell your hubs it’s not just him.


I love lemon scent, dating back to the first “grown up” splash I got for Christmas the year I turned 13. I would uncap it just to take a whiff. So I adore candles with sharp citrus scents, as well as florals like rose and gardenia.


The Maine Millennial, who got really into scented candles during the pandemic, also turned me on to them. Every Christmas I get a couple of the Bath and Body Works balsam candles - I swear, y’all, they really do smell like being in a pine forest - and I burn them to the bottom. She and my other kids have also been gifting me personalized Yankee Candles for special occasions. Here’s a delicious lilac scent (my favorite flowers!) from last Mother’s Day.



BEST CANDLE EVER!!!!

How about you, Readers? What are your go-to scents?


8 comments:

  1. I have to agree with Hallie and Rhys on the baking bread scent . . . and agreeing with Julia on lilac for the candles . . . .

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    1. From Celia: such a deliciously smelly enjoyable dip into fun. Yes Hallie,I met Jean Nate when I arrived in the STATES I Victor had bought it for me andI progressed through all the ,lemony scents to end up with Badebas always in the bath and shower not to mention gifting it a lot. For example Jenn it works on teen boys too.
      But going back the first scent I was ever given was Chanel #5 what a treat. I was 16. So have always loved French perfumes to wear though I don't use other than for special occasions now. Then I'll wear Hermes and feel very spoiled.
      But in general I love lavender which I buy from a vineyard in Napa, where they make an amazing body butter. I'm not a great candle sniffer and can't stand B B &B, or Yankee Candle stores. They do give me allergies.

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  2. I can't use any scents on my hypersensitive skin, and I've always choked when I walk by a candle store. But someone gave me a mildly grapefruity candle that is delightful, and I've always loved gardenia.

    Real scents are a different story. My lilacs are blooming and I take in a big inhale when I walk past. Bread baking? Divine. The smell of ripe local strawberries, a steak on the grill, tomatoes roasting in the oven, a pine forest, and the salt air at the beach (where I will be at the end of the day today starting my Cape solo writing retreat!), all make me happy.

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  3. Becky Sue EpsteinMay 11, 2026 at 6:07 AM

    As a winetaster, I'm very sensitive to smell.
    Did you know you can burn a scentless candle to get rid of household smells like cooking?
    You don't have to trade one smell for another.
    Of course for specific occasions lavender is great for relaxing, pine is wonderful for evoking holiday atmosphere, and so on.

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  4. I don’t burn candles. It was just a safety thing I adopted when I had young children and now I am sort of afraid I will light one and forget all about it.
    Scents I like are lemon, lavender, brand new box of crayons, new car, cinnamon, and I believe the candles my mom always had were bayberry.
    I think I am allergic to Eucalyptus because it makes me sneeze and gives me an instant headache when I walk in a place that has it.

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  5. Jenn, I love the smell of lemon, of vanilla, of pine. I love the scent of real fruit and flowers, but not artificially produced.
    There are a couple of scented candles in a bathroom cabinet but it has been years since I have even looked at them. I am among the "candles are toxic" crowd, so we rarely burn any scented candles. I am very smell sensitive and artificial scents can give me headaches. I use unscented laundry detergent, cleansers and soap as much as possible. If I am going to smell like something, I will choose it, not some random scent of laundry detergent. But I do wear perfume occasionally, very lightly applied.
    Inside my house, I cook and bake frequently, so most good smells in here are real. We no longer have a pet, no need to cover the smell of wet dog.

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  6. I'm not hypersensitive to any particular scent but the places that sell potpourri should be classified as toxic waste dumps. I'm not a big fan of candles and the like except to give as gifts to the various women in my life that I might have to give a gift to at one point or another. I've yet to run across one who hates scented candles so it makes at least part of gift-giving easy for me.

    For me, I hate walking into Bath and Body Works, Yankee Candle, the grocery store bleach aisle or any other option that attempts to poison me with their toxic smell-o-rama.

    There are various scents I like I'm sure, but I can't think of any off the top of my head that stands out above the rest.

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  7. There's one of those scent/soap stores on the main drag in Venice. You can smell the stuff from out on the street. I don't dare go in. I used to be extremely sensitive to scent, getting migraines from being around people wearing scent. I guess it's not so bad anymore. I friend got me into essential oils a number of years ago, for therapeutic purposes. Unfortunately my husband can't stand to smell anything, so they mostly go unused now except for in my office sometimes, not with a diffuser, but on a ceramic plate. For some reason I love the smell of rosemary EO, and I was fond of clementine. But generally, as others have said, things baking in the oven, vanilla, lemon rind, cinnamon rolls. In terms of "garden smells," I love roses and lilacs, hyacinths from a distance. I also love the smell of newly lain mulch, for some reason. Oh, I have a "thing" about pine trees, so I love walking in a pine forest.

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