RHYS BOWEN: I don’t know about you, but every year, at the beginning of summer, I look forward to those perfect lazy summer days. I’ll take a picnic to my favorite little beach on the Bay. I’ll drive up to wine country and sit in a vineyard, I’ll take the ferry across to San Francisco. And then suddenly it’s September and I realize I haven’t done any of those things I’d wanted to.
Summer has slipped away from me again, stolen with busyness–that book deadline. Those unexpected guests, the doctor appointments.
This year will be different. This year I will write on my calendar, at least one day a week: RHYS ESCAPE DAY. And nothing will come in its way. Clare and I had our picnic here yesterday--smelly cheese, crusty bread, olives and chilled white wine. Not bad.
Which makes me think: what would be my perfect summer day? A picnic, definitely. There is something so romantic and old-wordly about sitting on a rug in the shade, eating cold chicken or ripe peaches (if the wasps will kindly keep away. Any recommendations for that?)
Then beautiful scenery: a beach or the mountains or a perfect garden. Then the question: good company or blissful solitude. Should that picnic be alone or shared?
I remember two picnics that stay in my memory: When I was working at the BBC two friends had the same time off one day. We bought a picnic at Selfridges food hall, took the train to Kew Gardens and rented a rowing boat. We drifted down the Thames until we came to a tree overhanging the bank. Then we moored and ate our picnic: cold chicken, crusty bread. Good cheese. Grapes. Cold white wine. About as perfect as you can get.
Another blissful picnic was when my mother turned 75 in Australia. We sat in the shade on the cliffs over the Pacific. My brother and his wife provided the food. It was every type of seafood: lobster, oysters. Local crab. Prawns. Several salads. A cheese board. Champagne. We ate until we couldn’t eat any more. Then went down the cliff to swim. Came back. Tried another oyster. That was still my most perfect meal.
I can’t duplicate that but I am going to try this summer. I’ll keep you updated.
(This is China Camp, fifteen minutes from me, where I often take my picnic to eat. )Now it’s your turn, Reds. What is your perfect summer day? Perfect summer meal?
JENN McKINLAY: Oh, Rhys, you’ve made me nostalgic for picnics. My parents were big on Sunday picnics by the lake or the ocean. It really was the perfect way to spend a Sunday afternoon. I really have neglected the Hooligans horribly, no picnics that I can remember unless you include food by the campfire while camping. A perfect summer day for me would be spent with an ice cold lemonade, a cheese board and a box of pastries, sitting on a blanket with pillows under a shade tree, reading a book. Anyone is welcome to join me, but they have to BYOB - bring your own book!
HALLIE EPHRON: Ah, picnic. I love it when someone else puts it together. Because a perfect summer day definitely has a lovely menu but please, no prep.
When we lived in Manhattan ages ago the destination would have been Sheeps Meadow in Central Park with food picked up at Zabars. Here in New England my favorite summer place is a cottage on an island in Casco Bay, hanging out with my kids and grands, walking along the shore, dipping my toes in the icy cold water, boiling lobsters and just-picked corn, lining up at the local ice cream store, exhaling and sitting on the porch and watching the sun set.
JULIA SPENCER-FLEMING: My perfect summer day/meal is a lot like Hallie’s, because it’s on the Maine coast. I’d start with baseball in the afternoon, watching our Portland Sea Dogs at historic Hadlock Field. Then, off to a lobster shack for all the goodies Hallie described, but made by someone else! I’d finish off by sitting under the stars on some friends’ patio, enjoying an icy drink while talking around the firepit.
I have to tell you all - you don’t know summer until you’ve visited Maine!
DEBORAH CROMBIE: Rhys, I will happily take your perfect summer day! A little boat on the Thames with a picnic is just too Wind in the Willows perfect.
There will be no picnics here in Texas!! It's too hot, too humid, and too buggy. I would, however, love to sit on my deck in the cool morning with my cup of tea, watching the birds and the hummingbirds at their feeders and enjoying my flowers. Then, lunch on a patio at a nice restaurant. A nap in the afternoon, with a good book, then cooking something easy on the grill in the evening. Bliss!
HANK PHILLIPPI RYAN: I wake up. Someone brings me coffee, or I smell the fragrance from downstairs. Three newspapers, a sesame bagel, and absolutely no responsibilities for the entire day. Oh, I cannot even imagine. Nothing due, no deadlines, and a great idea in the back of my mind. It doesn't need to be glam or elaborate or planned, I just get to soak up the niceness.
LUCY BURDETTE: All of those sound so lovely! My mother was a beach hound so we spent many a summer day at the Jersey shore with sandwiches and lemonade made from a frozen can of slush. These days, I would skip the sand in the sandwiches part and order a perfect tuna melt with potato chips at the snack bar at the beach club. That would be washed down with an Arnold Palmer, half iced tea and half lemonade. Then I’d go sit in the shade and watch the grandkids frolic in the Sound.
RHYS: What about you Reddies? Your perfect summer day?
Oh and I've just realized its Friday 13th. Drive carefully, watch out for idiots!
A perfect summer day? Picnicking with all the grandbabies, their moms and dads; a good book . . . what could be better than that?
ReplyDeletePerfect summer day would have sunny weather in the mid-20s/high70s with LOW humidity, NO BUGS (I am a bug magnet). A nice bike ride along the river pathways followed by a lunch on a patio with a craft beer (I only drink beer in warm weather).
ReplyDeleteP.S. It was been a COOL spring so far in Ottawa. We have had only one day with a high temperature of 28C/81F.
DeleteIt's June 13 and I HAVE NOT installed my window AC in my apt.
Normally, it's setup & turned on in early May.
Grace, another bug magnet waving hello from across the border! It's getting to be ridiculous already, but I refuse to cower indoors--bugs be damned!
DeleteIt's a bad bug season here with all the cool rainy weather. I found 4 bites around my ankle yesterday. I just walked to/from the dentist! Yeesh. I guess I have to douse myself with bug repellent even for a short downtown walk.
DeleteI am wearing a wool hoodie. Today's forecasted high is only 18C/64F. BRRR
DeleteGRACE: Have you tried insect repellent clothes? I am trying to remember if it is vitamin B6 or vitamin B12 that makes your blood repel the bugs. I was in Connecticut the home of the Lyme insects one summer and I remember taking these vitamins.
DeleteCan you ride that bike home after the beer?
DeleteHA HA, I will be fine. It is just 1 beer!
DeleteDIANA: I have heard of clothes that have the repellent in the fabric but never bought any. I am assuming that protection wears away after frequent washes?
DeleteSo many picnic memories - on the beach at the end of the day, at our campsite in Sequoia National Park, in my yard under the trees at a long table with friends and family and great food and wine (I always want to recreate the French Sunday meals under an arbor I see in movies...).
ReplyDeleteWe had a wonderful picnic Sunday with my family and my goddaughters (total of four young kiddos) at a pond in the woods with a playground. Cheeses and tapenade and crusty bread, a big salad, beers, and blueberry muffins, then swimming and swinging and throwing rocks. Perfection, and it's not even summer yet!
(should have read "goddaughter's" - I only have one)
DeleteMy perfect summer day would be fishing with my grandparents eating Cheetos (the puffy ones not the crunchy ones) Grandma’s chocolate chip cookies (or fig Newtons if it was too hot to bake) and lemonade from the big green and white thermos jug. Another grand day would be going to the Saddle Club’s parade, again with my grandparents, and watching for my aunt, uncle, and cousins to ride by in their horses and followed by going to the rodeo. The absolute best summer day is making and eating homemade ice cream, yes the hand-cranked kind!
ReplyDeleteThose days are bygone. Now a perfect summer day is reading by the pool with an occasional dip in the water to cool off. I’ve already had several of them this year. I do love a picnic, but I am in favor of picking up sub sandwiches etc on the way to a park or beach. And then stopping for ice cream on the way home.
Brenda, where did you grow up, that you had a rodeo? That sounds like so much fun!
DeleteHow nice to have summer memories. I do too
DeleteKaren, the rodeo we went to was at my grandparents’ in SW Iowa. My aunt, uncle and cousins lived there too. We went to stay with my grandparents without our parents for two weeks every summer. Half the time with Mom’s parents in town and half the time with Dad’s on the farm.
DeleteWhen our kids were small, we took them tent camping for summer vacations to Acadia in Maine ( yes, Julia!), Lake George in NY State, and to Moose in northern New Hampshire. I'd pack our lunches and we'd hike to the top of somewhere with a view, sit on rocks and munch on sandwiches, gorp, homemade cookies and fruit. There is nothing as romantic as looking up at a starry sky while the campfire slowly dies down and you will soon snuggle together in your double sleeping bag under the stars. Ah-h, to be young and strong.
ReplyDeletePerfect summer day now is different. Less adventure, more relaxing.
There is something about that smell of woodsmoke, eating smores and lying looking up at the sky that’s quite magical, isn’t it? I used to love camping but John is not the outdoor type
DeleteJudy my family did our fair share of tent camping too. More great memories!
DeleteA perfect yesteryear summer's day was always Fourth of July on the Esplanade in Boston. As a result of attending the Bicentennial event in 1976 we kept going every year thereafter right through to post 9/11 when long lines, lots of limitations and regulations due to security concerns made it less appealing. We were also over a quarter of a century older so it was tiring to remain on the Esplanade for 15 hours like we used to do when we first started attending the concert and fireworks. But for 25 years we enjoyed the perfect day (and evening) along the Charles River starting at 7:30 in the morning until the end of the fireworks at 10:30 that night. We picked the same spot every year ~ under the shade of a tree near one of the lagoons. We only sat in front of the Shell once (near the canons) but without shade under a brutally hot sun we decided to go back to our little tree the following year. Eventually the sound system became so sophisticated that folks across the Charles in Cambridge could hear and enjoy the Esplanade concert as well. Fifteen hours required packing up a bundle of entertainment and good food which added to the fun of people watching, reading and taking periodic strolls along the river. There was always classical music provided over the sound system before the live concert as well. I packed lunch and dinner in a cooler with real dishes, glassware and silverware. I even addressed Christmas card envelopes to get a jump on the Christmas season. (Does anyone else ever yearn for Christmas in July? I always did.) Those twenty-five years of pure bliss celebrating our Country's birthday blessed us with the opportunity of seeing all of the Boston Pops conductors ~ Arthur Fiedler, John Williams and Keith Lockhart ~ in addition to many well known entertainers. When we lived just 6 miles outside Boston we spent many lovely Sundays biking or walking as well as lunching along the Charles or having breakfast on Boylston or Newbury Street. When time was not an issue heading to Rockport for the day was a favorite summer's day as well. Now the scenery is a bit different but still perfect. Pack a picnic lunch and a few chairs and head for Cape Cod Canal just down the street for the sound of the ocean waves and a chance to read a good book. Sometimes it's the simplest of things that finds the joy as well as the perfect summer's day.
ReplyDeleteThese days I’d worry about where to pee
DeleteI also remember the BSO Esplanade concerts. When Arthur Fiedler started them, they were performed for two weeks and the audience wasn’t allowed off the grass, but you could listen to the music
DeleteWhen the Fourth of July concerts with the fireworks, cannons, etc started to be televised they became much more popular beyond the Boston area.
Friends and I had been able to spread blankets and bring picnic items and enjoy the concert.
When it became so well known, people started coming who had no interest in the music, just the fireworks and it became too crowded and noisy and no longer enjoyable for me.
I still watch it on tv and enjoy the concert without all the background noise and have good memories of being there.
An evening concert outdoors with a picnic included would be perfect.
Rhys ~ :-) Haha! Back then I was a camel; now, not so much....
DeleteA quiet Cape Cod beach and a trashy beach read. Bliss, despite the sand sticking to my SPF 50-coated body.
ReplyDeleteWhen I was a kid, the perfect summer day was one that included walking or biking to the pool, swimming and hanging out on the deck til it was time to go home and then playing outside with the neighbor kids until it got dark. So fun.
ReplyDeleteNow I would say my perfect day would include a hike in the Columbia Gorge, passing a waterfall or two, followed by a picnic lunch at a place with a view of the water. We did have one such adventure a month or so ago and hope to do more.
The perfect hike is my ideal too. With friends
DeleteReading this, I realize it's been ages since I've been on a picnic. I must correct this. And the picnic food you've all mentioned is much better than I usually throw together. I must correct this as well.
ReplyDeleteLucy, a favorite picture book is Beach Day by Karen Rooser. My granddaughter and I read it over and over! It was exactly how I remembered shore visits and picnics.
ReplyDeleteWhen I was just a kid the family often went for Sunday drives and I well remember a time when we took a picnic. We found a lovely place right next to the road, with perhaps an apple tree to spread out blanket under. I think my mother had packed a ham and probably potato salad - her picnics were not based on sandwiches. She had made some sort of coconut-chocolate-condensed milk cookies. We were enjoying the picnic and then we noticed we were sitting on a golf course! The golfers allowed us to finish enjoying our picnic and then we were on our way. I bet picnicking on the grounds of a Cooperstown golf course in absolutely forbidden now but I haven't taken a chance and tried it.
Ohh, golfers aren’t happy. We lived on a golf course once. The kids could never stepmom the fairway
DeleteStepmom??? Step on. Grrrr
DeleteRhys, the spellcheck typos from you and Clare have lifted my spirits two days in a row. Could you please try for three? Thank you from me and my saggy spirits. Elisabeth
DeleteThis is going to sound horrible, but I'm wishy-washy on picnics. I hate sitting on grass. I have since I was a baby. My parents could put me on a blanket and I'd never go off of it because I disliked the feel of grass. As an adult I can walk on it, but sit? No.
ReplyDeletePicnics on the beach? No. Sand gets into everything.
However, I do like a grouping around a fire pit - on chairs - with good cheese, some fresh bread and olive oil to dip it in, assorted finger foods, and cold drinks. Hard cider, fresh lemonade, iced tea, or an Arnold Palmer. No deadlines, no obligations, just sit and be lazy.
I can't sit comfortably on the ground at all these days, Liz. It's a chair or picnic table with benches for me.
DeleteLIZ: You're not the only one. I did not mention picnics in my post. Our family never did them.
DeleteWhat is an Arnold Palmer?
Liz, I no like sitting on the grass either. But that is because of ticks!
DeleteJohn hates eating outside because of your reasons. I’m willing to risk the bugs and rug
DeleteGrace, an Arnold Palmer is a drink - half iced tea, half lemonade. There are a few companies that sell them, Arizona Tea is one. Or you can mix your own.
DeleteOk, thanks. Never seen that drink up here in Ontario!
DeleteNo, Liz, another wishywashy on picnics person here. Bugs, itchy grass, sand in the bread and jelly. And for me, fire pits are just as unappealing. Elisabeth
DeleteAgreed! Sitting on the grass on a blanket hard no. There’s just no way it’s comfortable. On the lawn at Tanglewood, maybe? With chairs? And someone else cleans up and carts all the leftovers home? On our patio, in the garden, at a table! Yes, I love it!
ReplyDeleteAnd getting up again?
DeleteSomeone else to clean up is a definite yes! LOL
DeleteOddly, since I've been working out, it's easier for me to get up off the ground these days. But I still don't like sitting on grass.
During my high school years, I used to sit under a grouping of young trees in the corner of the front yard and read. Food was in the house if I wanted something.
ReplyDeleteWhen I lived in Tampa, I loved driving to Tarpon Springs simply to enjoy the houses and downtown area. Afterwards, I'd take whatever snack was available and head to a local park, Fred Howard Park, and seek out one of several nooks on the beach. I would be sheltered from the wind, had the Gulf of Mexico before me, a folding chair, book, snacks (didn't matter what - the water was what was important to me) and peace that only the open water can provide. Perfect summer day or any other day! -- Victoria
ReplyDeleteIsn’t it interesting how we are drawn to being beside water?
DeleteAlways feels to me that my problems are rather small compared to large bodies of water, so I leave them there. -- Victoria
DeleteMy perfect summer day would be eating strawberries, dry farmed tomatoes (seasonal food) with olive oil and sourdough bread. I was reminded of my kindergarten class when I was 4 years old. Our class walked a few blocks to the high school where they had picnic tables and we ate watermelons. It was the first time I tasted a watermelon.
ReplyDeleteLoved the picnics in England. I remember having summer picnics with friends at Oxford. They had beautiful gardens where we could sit down. The weather was perfect. They have picnic tables outside pubs where you can sit outside and have a nice picnic lunch.
Making me homesick, Diana! Sitting outside the pub , preferably with a Lakers River nearby with a shandy and sausage roll. Pretty good!
DeleteI don't like sitting on the ground, either, at least not in Texas. Bugs!
ReplyDeleteSome of these posts made me think of picnics with my parents on childhood roadtrips. My mom loved to pack a simple picnic; Kraft sharp cheddar, Triscuits, and sardines. Yes, sardines, we loved them. Root beer if we were lucky. We'd stop at a roadside park and eat at a picnic table. And my best friend and I used to have the same picnic but on a tree limb that overhung the creek behind our house--only sometimes the sardines were switched with Vienna sausages. We still talk about how much we loved this!
Even John might have enjoyed your picnic if you had sardines, Debs
DeleteGrowing up in Maine meant many lovely summer days. Some at the ocean/beach with picnics there, some at our mountain camp (with no running water or electricity-super fun as kids!), lots of hiking and tenting in the backyard. But I think my all-time favorite childhood (and possibly adult-hood) summer memories are going to the drive-in movie theaters. We are super lucky to have 2 closeby and another one about an hour away. We live at a lake also, so no excuses for me to not create a couple of these fun summer memories this year! I am fortunate to have a beautiful and private backyard with a growing garden and lots of wildlife to enjoy every day.
ReplyDeleteWe used to take our kids! Such fun
DeleteRhys, your picnic sounds so perfect, that’s what I’m going to bring to the one I’m going to tomorrow! My neighbors and I will be picnicing in Dolores Park (where we all hope it will be sunnier than where we live on the foggy side of San Francisco), then taking a stroll toward Civic Center. I’m planning to bake a batch of salty chocolate chip cookies to share on our walk, because even if it’s cloudy, I’m hoping both the park and the streets will be so crowded, we’ll need sustenance!
ReplyDeleteIt’s been foggy, windy, chilly even here in Marin for a while. Not great picnic weather. I hope it’s good!
DeleteMy perfect summer day is sitting on a park bench with a book and people watching. Another day is sitting on a bench on the boardwalk and watching ships pass by (oh how I miss my view).
ReplyDeleteAnything with water is perfect for me, Dru
DeleteI love this! My perfect summer day is to pack a picnic basket and head to our back meadow. We have a little deck we built there, just a platform with a roof but no walls. It's glorious to sit and watch the deer and birds come and go. I'd pack a bright red wine, sharp cheeses, crackers, olives, tabbouleh, an some finger pastries and watch nature's show.
ReplyDeleteSounds pretty perfect to me too
DeleteMy husband and I will pick out one of the Virginia wineries to visit that is dog friendly. We know of several in the area. We'll pick out wine to sip, get snacks, and water for Jack and just relax. Sometimes we'll strike up conversations with other visitors. It is always enjoyable and the views are outstanding.
ReplyDeletePicnic – egg salad sandwich, 2 oreos, and a can of coke. Location does not matter.
ReplyDeletePerfect summer day – without the picnic.
ReplyDeleteTake lunch outside the front door and sit under the cherry tree. Include a book. Perhaps include kids, but they were sworn to silence. They were only allowed to talk if there was impending death, because if they talked to me death would be impending – guaranteed. Stay long into forever – but probably an hour. Repeat tomorrow.
To this day, the kids remember this as the perfect time of day.
How about a Reddies and Reds get together with a picnic, perhaps a buffet with a barbecue, dim sum hors d oeuvres and someone to monitor the biting insects. If anyone wants to be bug free, all they have to do is have me around. I will have a cloud around me and no one else will feel a thing. I have yet to find an effective repellent and I’ve used some that smell so bad that the insects are almost preferable.
ReplyDeleteI have an empty picnic basket with accessories that I have never used. I won it in a supermarket giveaway which also included a cash certificate for groceries. The groceries are long gone but still have the unused basket.
ReplyDeleteBefore I try and come up with a perfect summer day, I have to address your topic of picnics, Rhys. First of all, I'm rather disappointed disappointed that I didn't grow up or now live in pre-made picnic package place. Grabbing a picnic, with all items included might have favorably influenced my desire for a picnic. When growing up, we neighborhood kids would fix a sandwich, like peanut butter and jelly, throw in some chips and a drink, and have a picnic in one of our backyards, or eat on the picnic table with our family or with neighbors on a Saturday. And, there were the family reunions held at parks in the shelters with picnics where everyone would bring lots of food. The common thread here is that it was a meal, even the p&j kid-size ones, which leads me to the poor guy who took me on my first picnic date. I was an unsophisticated (I've learned a lot since then) freshman in college and he was older. He asked me on a date, to a park and have a picnic there, and he would bring all the picnic supplies. So, we explored the park a bit and then found a perfect picnic spot, secluded and surrounded by trees. I was good and hungry, so I was happy to be stopping to enjoy our feast. He spread out a blanket, so far so good, and then took out the picnic food (?). Cheese, crackers, fruit, and a non-alcoholic drink (I was underage). I waited for the rest, maybe some chicken and dessert. Nope, nothing else appeared. My thought was, "Where is the food?" Oh, and he had a transistor radio and read me some of his poetry. Dreams of what was in our refrigerator at home danced in my head. I was too young and unsophisticated to appreciate his romantic gesture. I was nice enough not to complain though. So, went our first and last date. Now, of course, I would think he was a lovely man.
ReplyDeletePerfect summer day would involve reading in some solitary setting, like under a shade tree when the temperature wasn't too hot, but mild and breezy. Having a cooler of drinks handy would be good. Then, later going to a restaurant to meet either family or friends and eating outside. Coming home to a mystery series on TV, like Julia's Russ and Clare or Debs' Gemma and Duncan or Rhys' Royal Spyness or any other Reds' books made into TV series or movies.
The above comments were from me, Kathy Boone Reel. I didn't notice it posted as anonymous.
DeleteThanks, Kathy, for not being Anonymous. (Blogger made me anonymous about 3 years ago and after a couple of weeks of frustration, I surrendered.) from me, Elisabeth
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